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How many girlfriends do you have???
| Thu, 07-29-2004 - 5:45pm |
I was reading a post on another board, and I got to thinking....I only have one friend that I go out with, and two or three that I have been friends with since college.

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Hi Eileen
I don't remember seeing you here before so just wanted to welcome you to the board!
I went through a long physical rehabilitation in which my SO gradually isolated me and the more he isolated me the more dependent I was on him. Now out of my cave, moved away from him though he still comes to see me he understands it's my house and I've been going out to see my gf's which are a lot older than me and don't go out at all. Making new gf's has been off the priority list, I make better friends with guys, but that's tricky, and often temporary because as soon as they get an SO the partner gets jealous, but lately have had two gf's in a gay couple and that's been a lot of fun and I have a gf from out of state visiting me with her daughter who is tight with mine on the yearly vacation. I visit her in the winter, usually. We have it backwards since she has real winter there and we usually have a miserably hot and humid August, but the weather has been fantastic all summer and I can't wait to share it, which reminds me, I have to finish working on the *new* house to make room for her -still unpacking! The difficult situation is that the day she will be visiting is SO's b-day and she doesn't want him near her, also difficult because she gets possessive, she got so possessive that she left in a huff two years ago and we haven't had a visit since.
gay friends aren't nearly as complicated.
Jeannie
As for my screen name -- It means #1 Science Teacher -- No1SciTchr...although it seems that when looked at quickly people mistake it to be stitcher -- as in sewing, LOL!
I'm glad to be here and will chime in when i have time. Normally, i hang out on the debate boards -- sah vs. woh...
Eileen
Kim
Kim
Hi Eileen, welcome!
My son is almost 13 and going into 8th grade. My middle daughter is 10 1/2 and is a special needs child -- she needs complete and total care. She's in a wheelchair and tube-fed. Our youngest is an 8 1/2 year old girl who is, quite appropriately, nicknamed DQ (aka Drama Queen) and she is going into 4th grade.
Again, thanks for the welcome. It's interesting being back in the dating scene. I hope i'm not judged too harshly for dating before our divorce is final - I've been "alone" in that marriage for a long, long time and it is good to get out there again.
Eileen
Eileen, you won't find any judges on this board....this is a very supportive place.
ours would have been 15 years last week....and, honestly, i should have done this about FIVE years ago....
eileen
"ours would have been 15 years last week....and, honestly, i should have done this about FIVE years ago...."
Same with me, totally!
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