Well, seeing that he's looking at meeting someone else, that seals the deal that neither of you are working at working it out- so maybe that's why you feel sad?
My ex has never changed his email password.. and i'll admit to snooping... i've checked maybe twice since our divorce.. who's knows why.. and i felt guilty but also felt like.. what an idiot for not changing his password.. duh.. i found it very amusing to see he was chatting with a girl from Russia LOL...
i created all new accounts and new passwords after we seperated.. i didn't want him knowing anything about my activity online... the spookiest thing was when i put a profile on yahoo personals and saw his picture.. spooky.. it hadn't been active in months and i quickly deleted my profile after that... still i couldn't believe the lies he was telling about himself.. oh well.
I think it's natural to be curious. We've all done it at some time.
I find it funny that Bikerguy "demanded" that I not date right now (even after telling me he wanted me to) and yet there he is on POF and SingleParentMeet every d*%n day. What nerve! A friend says maybe he's checking to see if I'm on but I doubt it. And I read his profile and had to laugh!!! Average build (he's carrying 40 more lbs than when I met him a year ago), likes to cook (never once cooked for me). All his photos are over a year old except for the ones with his motorcycle that *I* took about 6 weeks ago. Says he's very affectionate...ok may he is with the right woman and maybe I'm just not the right woman, which is fine.
Anyway, enough of that....I just love how people fib in the profiles as if no one is ever going to find out.
LOLl! Well, guess who has been snooping on me? Yep, he admitted to snooping and learning about my eharmony. Also, I got a call from my myspace guy and my talking caller id was on. Hey, I have nothing to hide. When I calmed down I realized I didn't care about him moving on. I think I was just upset coming off of his having DS whisked away for 10 days and showing him off;it was jealousy but really about DS.
BTW...I never admitted to my own snooping. Oops!
What I suspected is true though for why he has not moved out yet. His interviews have all been in other cities and it is very likely that he will yet again move out of town. I have mixed feelings on this. On one hand, it is easier for me moving forward without having to run into him out and about. But then, Brendan will yet again have limited access to his father. I guess his career still takes priority, which is one of the main reasons we couldn't reconcile.
Well, seeing that he's looking at meeting someone else, that seals the deal that neither of you are working at working it out- so maybe that's why you feel sad?
My ex has never changed his email password.. and i'll admit to snooping... i've checked maybe twice since our divorce.. who's knows why.. and i felt guilty but also felt like.. what an idiot for not changing his password.. duh.. i found it very amusing to see he was chatting with a girl from Russia LOL...
i created all new accounts and new passwords after we seperated.. i didn't want him knowing anything about my activity online... the spookiest thing was when i put a profile on yahoo personals and saw his picture.. spooky.. it hadn't been active in months and i quickly deleted my profile after that... still i couldn't believe the lies he was telling about himself.. oh well.
Loonbunny
Snooping is good.
I think this will sink in and help you manage him and your feelings better once the sting wears off. It will keep you from being too nice :-D
And besides, when you find MrRight on EH, you don't want M at your house to meet him!! LOL!!
Rebecca, Mom to Averey, 2/8/00, Kibo, Sana & Zuri too!
Isnt it SO hard NOT TO? Ugh. I'm not proud either.
I think it's natural to be curious. We've all done it at some time.
I find it funny that Bikerguy "demanded" that I not date right now (even after telling me he wanted me to) and yet there he is on POF and SingleParentMeet every d*%n day. What nerve! A friend says maybe he's checking to see if I'm on but I doubt it. And I read his profile and had to laugh!!! Average build (he's carrying 40 more lbs than when I met him a year ago), likes to cook (never once cooked for me). All his photos are over a year old except for the ones with his motorcycle that *I* took about 6 weeks ago. Says he's very affectionate...ok may he is with the right woman and maybe I'm just not the right woman, which is fine.
Anyway, enough of that....I just love how people fib in the profiles as if no one is ever going to find out.
Cat
LOLl! Well, guess who has been snooping on me? Yep, he admitted to snooping and learning about my eharmony. Also, I got a call from my myspace guy and my talking caller id was on. Hey, I have nothing to hide. When I calmed down I realized I didn't care about him moving on. I think I was just upset coming off of his having DS whisked away for 10 days and showing him off;it was jealousy but really about DS.
BTW...I never admitted to my own snooping. Oops!
What I suspected is true though for why he has not moved out yet. His interviews have all been in other cities and it is very likely that he will yet again move out of town. I have mixed feelings on this. On one hand, it is easier for me moving forward without having to run into him out and about. But then, Brendan will yet again have limited access to his father. I guess his career still takes priority, which is one of the main reasons we couldn't reconcile.