I am 40 w/ 3 kids. BF of 8yrs wants baby

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Registered: 05-19-2008
I am 40 w/ 3 kids. BF of 8yrs wants baby
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Mon, 05-19-2008 - 11:10am

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Registered: 03-15-2004
Mon, 05-19-2008 - 9:32pm

Lots to consider. & no, truly, whether you marry or not - you dont have "3 or 4 years".


Im an L&D RN. I see many moms at 40,41, even 42. But

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iVillage Member
Registered: 03-15-2004
Mon, 05-19-2008 - 9:33pm
Oh! Youve been living together 8 years? I missed that! Shoot, have the darn baby!

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Registered: 03-15-2004
Mon, 05-19-2008 - 9:34pm

lol - I should keep reading. Ok, you havent lived together. Move him in fast. See how it goes for 6 months or so ... then decide. Thats my plan for you

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iVillage Member
Registered: 05-19-2008
Wed, 05-21-2008 - 10:29pm
Thanks everybody for the input. I have lots to think about, but i feel more focused.
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-24-2008
Wed, 05-21-2008 - 11:24pm

IMO...I would iron out the "baby issue" before getting married.

It's okay to jump...you have wings! 

To move forward...you have to stop looking back.

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Registered: 10-07-2005
Thu, 05-22-2008 - 1:34am

How is he with the children you have now?


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