I am about to break into tears....

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I am about to break into tears....
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Fri, 01-16-2009 - 10:32pm

G and I have been exclusive after the first month of us seeing each other (we have seen each other since July). Just right now I got an email from him. We send each other jokes that we get from others. I have a habit of looking at everybody's "sent to" and "from" when messages are fowarded. Everyone's. This time in G's "foward to", there was a xx at talkmatch.com . Surprised, I called up G and asked him who x was and he said he had no idea, and that he has a button he clicks of people he automatically sends the jokes to. I asked him if he was seeing someone else and he said no and that we are exclusive. I told him okay.


I keep all his emails (I like to read what we have written to each other), and the x at talkmatch.com is not in any of the other "sent to" fowarded jokes. I don't know what to think. This isn't settling right.


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Fri, 01-16-2009 - 10:39pm
((((HUGS)))) Ashley.
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Fri, 01-16-2009 - 10:49pm

I unsubscribed from match back in August and haven't renewed it, so there isn't a way for me to see if he still has his profile on the site. I was thinking about it, and it *is* possible that he may have recently put together a "joke group" of people from his email address list and maybe just didn't recognize her/the email? I have a VERY hard time trusting people, so although this could be the case, it's hard for me to believe it.


Thanks for the support.


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Fri, 01-16-2009 - 10:49pm

Ugh. Im sorry. Thats so hard to wonder about!!!! Have you had any inkling b4 this, that anything was wrong?

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Fri, 01-16-2009 - 10:53pm

What is your email and I will give you his old profile name, if you wouldn't mind checking for me. I think that would help out alot.


I remember a few months ago he said that he was unknowingly being billed by match and he hadn't been on it forever.

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Fri, 01-16-2009 - 10:56pm
Hmmm ... the billing thing scares me. You can E me thru my profile here. I dont want to post my addy. Thanks! &

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Fri, 01-16-2009 - 11:01pm

"unknowingly being billed by match"

uhm, isn't match a lot of money? how could he not notice that he was missing a set amount every month?

I hope for your sake he's just dumb and not cheating.

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Fri, 01-16-2009 - 11:02pm

Oops, I'm sorry, I didn't answer your other questions. :/


Have you had any inkling b4 this, that anything was wrong?

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Fri, 01-16-2009 - 11:07pm
go look at my new post and take your mind off it while you wait for Rebecca to get home and check. ;-)
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Fri, 01-16-2009 - 11:15pm

uhm, isn't match a lot of money? how could he not notice that he was missing a set amount every month?


You know, I hadn't thought about it too much when he said it to me, and I know he has a LOT of money so I figured he truly didn't see it on his checking account. But now that I have brought it up and you and Rebecca are calling it out, it does surprise me a little since he is pretty tight with his money.


OTOH, maybe he really DOESN'T check out his monthly bank statement since he is a busy guy. I can see either one of these two scenarios happening.


I hope for your sake he's just dumb and not cheating.


He is a HIGHLY intelligent man and it would surprise me if he was doing something dumb. I sure hope so though.


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Sat, 01-17-2009 - 12:31am
Hi blackbeltmama_99, I hope it's not anything bad. You can run a search without being a member of match.com. To do a search you must sign in, you can always create a fake profile by changing name/age/city so that he won't recognize it's you. You can narrow your search by age group (narrow age closer to his age) and by city (within 10-25 miles) to see if a profile comes up with his picture. He could always change his name and profile name so that no one will find him if he's trying to be secretative in having a profile. I wish you well, hugs your way, I know how you are feeling and what you are going through, especially when we get the suspicion that something is not right. Hopefully we are all wrong. Keep us posted.

Anna


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