I am being ridiculous, I would rather...

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Registered: 11-25-2007
I am being ridiculous, I would rather...
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Thu, 03-06-2008 - 11:16pm

...........do almost ANYTHING than make the call to tell someone I have been dating, I am done!

mom_uk2socal - Mom to DS22, DS19, DD16

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Thu, 03-06-2008 - 11:58pm
How about sending him an email?



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Fri, 03-07-2008 - 12:21am

Hey cl-alison, i have definately considered this, in fact gone back and forth on phoning and email and sorta concluded that it was too impersonal - even tho I would definately prefer it, and knowing how uncommunicative he is, he wont have much of a response even via email - that is also so not what I am used to my last relationships - but then

mom_uk2socal - Mom to DS22, DS19, DD16

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Fri, 03-07-2008 - 12:26am

Considering you haven't really seen him since that weekend... and you said you think he's feeling the same way... I would lay it out to him in an email and you can then apologize for not doing it in person.


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Fri, 03-07-2008 - 12:57am

yes it helps - THANKYOU!


I guess I have this aversion to using cliche's so was avoiding the "this isnt working for me" - but maybe thats just from my OLD days and since I didnt meet him there..............I agree thats

mom_uk2socal - Mom to DS22, DS19, DD16

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Fri, 03-07-2008 - 1:05am

I think it's best to keep it simple and short- you don't owe him too much of an explanation... even after two months.


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Fri, 03-07-2008 - 1:13am

It sucks to be dumped and it sucks to dump

mom_uk2socal - Mom to DS22, DS19, DD16

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Fri, 03-07-2008 - 12:25pm

ok its DONE - sigh of relief!

mom_uk2socal - Mom to DS22, DS19, DD16