I met a guy on e-harmony about 2 weeks ago--we sent a bunch of messages--no phone calls--and we set up a quick visit Saturday and that went well (I thought)--we talked a lot and it seemed to go smoothly but...we made tenetive plans for Friday with a mention of speaking more this week to set up concrete plans and nothing.
It is going to happen a lot in OLD - it is called ghosting. Apparently it is an issue on his side - don't worry - just keeping on going. Get a lot on the string so you have a better chance of liking one that likes you.
OLD is a tedious process and you have to toughen up.
Lol we must be related. Don't feel alone on this because I swear the same happens to me. Its a joke between me and my girlfriends if they want to get rid of a guy or a pest just send them off with me for even 30 minutes I guarantee he will never interfere in their or my life again.
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I met a guy on e-harmony about 2 weeks ago--we sent a bunch of messages--no phone calls--and we set up a quick visit Saturday and that went well (I thought)--we talked a lot and it seemed to go smoothly but...we made tenetive plans for Friday with a mention of speaking more this week to set up concrete plans and nothing.
April
It is going to happen a lot in OLD - it is called ghosting. Apparently it is an issue on his side - don't worry - just keeping on going. Get a lot on the string so you have a better chance of liking one that likes you.
OLD is a tedious process and you have to toughen up.
He got scared..something spooked him.
It is an interesting world out there in places like e-Harmony and Match..
Rebecca, Mom to Averey, 2/8/00, Kibo, Sana & Zuri too!
Lol we must be related. Don't feel alone on this because I swear the same happens to me. Its a joke between me and my girlfriends if they want to get rid of a guy or a pest just send them off with me for even 30 minutes I guarantee he will never interfere in their or my life again.
Tul,
Same thing happened to me...I certainly thought I was too old and wise to fall for a player....or a player line.
You're not the only one Houdini.
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