I am the HOUDINI of dating!!

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Registered: 02-05-2007
I am the HOUDINI of dating!!
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Tue, 11-27-2007 - 8:20pm

Apparently I know magic.

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Registered: 02-05-2007
Tue, 12-11-2007 - 2:31am

Nope...didn't sleep with either. Didn't even get close.

Here is an update.

He sends me a lame text "Hey you" anyway...this led to an invitation to breakfast. I went to breakfast and he talked about all the stuff going on and said he didn't know what to do now. He sincerely apologized for falling off the end of the earth and that was nice but he left it so open and I was such a wimp that I didn't really push. When he dropped me off he said he couldn't make any promises....and VOILA! MIA again....

Screw this guy. I guess what bugs me is this is the first guy I have actually LIKED in YEARS, and that's counting when I was married.....*sigh* I know the whole "other fish in the sea" bit...but why are they SOOO convincing for NO REASON.

lame!

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Registered: 12-09-2007
Tue, 12-11-2007 - 8:34am

the same thing just happened to me.

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Registered: 03-13-2007
Tue, 12-11-2007 - 9:34am

Don't give up.

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Registered: 09-11-2007
Tue, 12-11-2007 - 10:05am

Hey drgnfly,


Sorry to hear how the lame-o's have treated you.

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Registered: 10-07-2005
Tue, 12-11-2007 - 10:58am

Good point about interviewing!


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Registered: 12-11-2007
Tue, 12-11-2007 - 11:03am

I know what you are saying.... Same situation as I have been having with a couple guys from E-harmony.


I think that they are hiding something and not being true to themselves when they do this. I think you should just be a man (or woman, because we are all guilty of

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Registered: 12-11-2007
Tue, 12-11-2007 - 12:51pm
Listen....It is not the end of the world.
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Registered: 06-04-2004
Tue, 12-11-2007 - 1:27pm

Okay, so just HOW did this post manage to get so many new people to de-lurk and post?!??

~shrimpy

"A man who wants something will find a way; a man who doesn't will find an excuse." ~Stephen Dolley Jr.

~<

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Registered: 12-11-2007
Tue, 12-11-2007 - 2:02pm
This sounds like a very frustrating experience, but maybe I can help.
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Registered: 11-20-2007
Tue, 12-11-2007 - 4:24pm

Houdini, you stated: "After getting one word responses to the one text i sent a day