I am the HOUDINI of dating!!

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I am the HOUDINI of dating!!
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Tue, 11-27-2007 - 8:20pm

Apparently I know magic.

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Tue, 12-11-2007 - 11:48pm

Whenever a woman that I'm attracted to makes out with me, regardless of what number date it is, then I am immediately enamored with her. Of course I'm 54 so wanting a "quickie" is subject to my level of horniness but for the most part, I know from experience that a quickie does not ultimately satisfy me and just creates hurt and confusion so I don't do it (not that I have had that many opportunities in the first place :-P).

All of this discussion is subject to the context of the age group IMHO. 20s is different from 30s different from 40s .... yadda yadda yadda.

Mark
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Wed, 12-12-2007 - 12:10am

I know from experience that a quickie does not ultimately satisfy me and just creates hurt and confusion so I don't do it


I just wanted to say that I'm 25

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Wed, 12-12-2007 - 12:39am

Mark, it's interesting how many of the things you say, simply reminds me of my Hiker. He is near your age, and he gets that "need for a quickie" kind of thing, too- lol... men will be men! ;-) But thankfully he only acts on that with ME, now that we're in a committed relationship. Otherwise- I agree... getting into quickies or flings can only cause dissatisfaction later on (even if it might satisfy an immediate physical need for the moment).


I agree with you too,

~shrimpy

"A man who wants something will find a way; a man who doesn't will find an excuse." ~Stephen Dolley Jr.

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Wed, 12-12-2007 - 1:43am

Oh of course for a 25 yr old babe I can do a quickie *evil grin* Nahhhh... but a longie... now THAT's another matter!

Mark who is feeling his oats today....

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Wed, 12-12-2007 - 1:51am

ROTFL!!!! I love what you said about letting Hike play with your eggs!!!! OMG.

Thanks for sharing that last tidbit.

Mark who is looking for some eggs and not wanting to wait for Easter.... Hey wait a minute CGND has chickens.... hmmmmmm

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Wed, 12-12-2007 - 1:59am

Oh yikes, Mark... mention easter and next thing you know, women here will be going on about their Rabbits!! lol


~shrimpy

"A man who wants something will find a way; a man who doesn't will find an excuse." ~Stephen Dolley Jr.

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Wed, 12-12-2007 - 12:36pm
I just had the same thing happen to me.I thought things were going great after two weeks of seeing each other alot and bam no more calls.I think there are commitment issues aon thier part and they panic.
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Wed, 12-12-2007 - 12:38pm

"I'm 54 so wanting a "quickie" is subject to my level of horniness but for the most part, I know from experience that a quickie does not ultimately satisfy me and just creates hurt and confusion so I don't do it"

LOL!! You buried this gem in this long thread - thanks for the laugh!! You are a catch you know - all this wisdom - older men can be gems!!

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Wed, 12-12-2007 - 12:46pm

(I just let him play with my eggs sometimes.. lol)


hehe....love that!!


My guy is the same age as Hiker. Same thing goes with the quickies. Sometimes out of the blue he just gets the need to have it and to have it NOW, lol. I just am glad that we're exclusive so he comes to me for it :o) Those times can be fun and exciting but they are not the norm. He's more of a take his time kinda guy, which I love.

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Wed, 12-12-2007 - 10:42pm

Was that Rabbits, or Dolphins?


LOL!


Alison, wondering just WHAT everyone had in their Wheaties this morning!




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