I am an Idiot

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Registered: 10-13-2008
I am an Idiot
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Wed, 10-22-2008 - 12:21pm

Why am I so emotional.

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Registered: 11-20-2007
Wed, 10-22-2008 - 12:38pm

Aw, sorry you're having such a crummy week.

I'm not sure about all men, but when DF and I have a disagreement we talk about it, resolve it and then move on. He and I can both accept the resolution and then walk away from the problem. Maybe PP can do the same?

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Registered: 10-13-2008
Wed, 10-22-2008 - 12:42pm
He does, every time, I just find it so hard, I stress that he is not ok, that maybe it really him and he wont tell me. He is just so easy going it is hard for me.
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Registered: 11-20-2007
Wed, 10-22-2008 - 1:52pm

I'm pretty laid back and easygoing myself, so I have no problems moving on from an issue once it's resolved. My DF is pretty much the same way.


I've told him that I'm no good at reading people so if something is bothering him he absolutely must tell me or else I will never know, and he's been very good about that. We had a little hiccup about a month back where some stuff was getting to him and we talked about it and besides right now I haven't thought of it since. We made adjustments and everything is smooth again.


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Registered: 10-17-2008
Wed, 10-22-2008 - 3:42pm

Hi there...first of all, I'm very sorry you're having such a tough week!!! Hugs to you.


To answer your question...yes, some man do get over stuff just like that.

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Registered: 10-13-2008
Wed, 10-22-2008 - 4:15pm
Thanks, I am glad I made a little sense.