I am still unsure about this one...

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Registered: 10-10-2007
I am still unsure about this one...
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Wed, 04-16-2008 - 11:51am

The law student is fabulous--he still sends texts everyday--we talk nearly every night BUT we had those 2 dates on the 4th and the 6th and he hasn't mentioned going out again.

April

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Wed, 04-16-2008 - 12:26pm

It sounds like there is an unbroken

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Wed, 04-16-2008 - 12:35pm

Maybe you can give it a little bit of time to tell for sure.. go out this next time with him (your plans) and then maybe see if he will take the lead next time. Like Soonee said, next time just say something about when your kids are away or drop a hint about someplace you'd like to see or go. I don't see anything wrong with planning a few dates yourself as long as he begins to pick up the ball eventually.


Have fun...and come back after the date with details!!!


~Pacific~
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Wed, 04-16-2008 - 12:36pm

I don't mind it this way on one side but on the flip side I really like being pursued--it's an indicator that they are actually interested--I know that the daily contact should tell me that he is interested but him asking me out would help...is that silly?

April

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Wed, 04-16-2008 - 12:41pm

Thanks!

April

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Wed, 04-16-2008 - 1:35pm
{{hugs}} no anwers.....I'm thinking too hard myself! He sounds shy, maybe you should have "that" talk?
~~Tiny

~Karen
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Wed, 04-16-2008 - 1:45pm

We're still pretty new so I haven't gone there--no intimacy yet so no immediate need for the "exclusive?" question...if we do get to that point maybe he'll relax a little...not that that would be my reason for intimacy...just thinking maybe he needs just as much confirmation of my interest as I am looking for from him--why should that be one sided?

April

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Registered: 12-27-2006
Wed, 04-16-2008 - 6:28pm

Keeping ~~HAPPY THOUGHTS~~ for you!!!


I'm in a similiar situation but we've been intimate....

~~Tiny


You said you couldn't stand to see my heart broken...so when you broke it, did you close your eyes?

~Karen
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Wed, 04-16-2008 - 6:51pm
Good luck April!
He sounds like a nice guy who is maybe a bit reluctant to initiate dates for whatever reason! Who knows!!

 



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