I can't believe I did this... (DATE!)
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| Sat, 07-19-2008 - 11:01pm |
I'm just kinda sitting jaw dropped and in awe of this last minute on the fly date I just had!
There was just this one leftover YP guy that I liked, and was talking to but just never went out with. He kept wanting to do things at the last minute but I had the kids and constantly was turning him down. Medic pretty much stepped in, made plans and of course you know where that is right now. Medic wants serious, and like super fast. Now, what made that ok is that I have this major inability to focus on more than one man at a time. Which is why I was shocked that I accepted this date tonight! I just kept thinking what if.. should I really turn this guy down again.. what if he's amazing? What if? What if?
So I broke two huge rules tonight in the blink of an eye. I went out with another man when I prefer to focus on just one.. and I freaking brought my KIDS! GASP! Just after turning this guy down so many times I just decided oh the hell with it.
So what is the new guys name hmm.. we shall call him HC...
He was nothing short of awesome, I was in shock. I'm like someone pinch me here what the heck is going on? He was amazing with the girls, he was having so much fun and just laughing. *I* had to kick myself to get in gear because I caught myself being a stick in the mud wanting my girls to behave like proper ladies while he was just wanting to goof off and have fun.
He came right out and asked if he was what I expected, and I kinda blushed and said yes. What is up with me being so shy these days? LOL. He says so... if you were to see me out you'd approach me? I said well, I'm not very good at approaching men. You'd be the one to turn my head and I'd make eye contact and cross my fingers that YOU approached ME! haha. He whispers over to me... "What was your ex husband thinking? You and your kids are beautiful and amazing". I blushed again, practically needed to fan myself lol. We sat out at his truck and talked for a while as the girls played in the back of his truck pretending like it was a stage lol. I put the girls in the car, went back to give him a hug and he said what are the rules here, hug you? I said oh there are rules? He said oh in that case.. and gave me a proper sweet nice kiss. Nothing over the top like omg I want to bang you.. just sweet and nice haha.
He's going swimming with the girls and I tomorrow and taking us all out for icecream.
Someone pinch me.. OMG!
-Michelle aka The Playah!

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glad to hear that you and the girls had a good time. I always worry about dating and the kids and them meeting people. Looks like its working out in this situation.
Have fun with swimming and icecream. And don't worry about being shy, sometimes we just feel that way and it works.
JL
Are you sure you aren't on that show "Must Love Kids"... LOL... i haven't seen it but from what people are posting, you could be a contestant.... several hot dates... meeting the kids.... LOL..... you go girl.
I am with rlch - can't imagine doing the kid thing - but it sounds like this one likes you!!
Okay - so if you had to pick, would it be medic, this one - or more time to decide? LOL!!
If I had to choose, I'd go with bachelor #3.. a blend of both! lol
Heck, I dunno. Time will tell. HC seems to good to be true, and I know I probably shouldn't have that attitude, but I do.
Going out with the kids was rough. We wear two hats, and I had to be in Mommy mode, I couldn't talk much at all.. the girls were going non-stop. I was very overwhelmed feeling with the whole thing going so well, and so much going on the entire time.
Time will tell.. we shall see.
and by then, it was too late."
I don't think you have to pick right now.... get to know each of them and yes, time will tell. Sounds like Medic will expect exclusivity from what you've written about him, but until that talk... you are still fair game.
As far as the too good to be true... ah, well, ya know what they say... so keep your eyes open on that one.... don't let your heart get to involved while you are still learning about him... and yet enjoy!!!
Update!
Pool date with HC...
The pool was closed! Ugg. The pump was broken, so we hung out in the baby pool for a little while, and just enjoyed being outside. So.. then we went for icecream. He was awesome with the girls as usual, he's scared of my driving... and I told him its his fault, he has me distracted! lol
I parked at my place, had the girls go inside, and walked him back to his car at the pool. He was laughing and said you guys are just awesome, if this dosn't work out can I just come back and hang? I'm having a blast lol. He was just kinda laughing and joking around saying that. I said sure, you can be my babysitter for all my hot dates haha. At one point getting icecream he said you're looking at me weird.. I laughed and said well you're just so sweet jeeze! lol
Got another great sweet kiss at the car, and that was that!
Ugg at being overweight and being forced to wear a bathing suit on the second meet up! haha
and by then, it was too late."
I'd be concerned about heading for the Insta-Family thing too quickly if all the dates included the kids.
But you know what you're doing, and hopefully it'll work out in the long run. At least you're having fun together... but make sure you have some adults-only dates too- so you can see if you guys are even compatible on your own or not!
~shrimpy
It's never too late to live happily ever after, and always be grateful for those who make our souls blossom.
~shrimpy
"A man who wants something will find a way; a man who doesn't will find an excuse." ~Stephen Dolley Jr.
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and by then, it was too late."
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