I can't believe it!

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Registered: 02-19-2004
I can't believe it!
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Sat, 08-27-2005 - 8:54pm

We break up in May, I last see him in mid-June,

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Registered: 05-05-2003
Sat, 08-27-2005 - 9:55pm

Geesh! What a guy! I'm glad that you stuck it out and didn't answer, now fight the temptation to call him and see what he wanted. You know in your heart that he doesn't want to start something up with you again, so resist wondering why he called. If he wanted to get back together, he would've left a message begging you to call him.

Glad to see you're back out there dating. Sometimes it's nice to just go out on dates and not expect anything from them, just be out for a night and having fun.

So what happened on the dates?

Alison

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Registered: 05-13-2005
Sat, 08-27-2005 - 11:08pm

You have done very well. I am so proud of you for not answering that call. It is great that you are going strong with OLD. Good job!!

The only way I would take J back is if he showed up with a chariot and 6 white matched horses with tons of roses and begging and telling you what you want. Anything less is probably a booty call - especially on a Saturday.

Keep us posted on the OLD progress. I just knew that beautiful pic would yield some results!!

And your pic and new signature look great!! Be sure to share some good divorce and money tips if you hear of them!!

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Registered: 07-20-2005
Sun, 08-28-2005 - 8:34am

Good for you! Yes, at that time on SAturday night, it probably was just a booty call. If it had been anything else, he would have left a message. Stay strong now and don't call him back. Focus instead on these potentially great guys who want to go out with you. Let us know what's going on there.

Kelly

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Registered: 02-19-2004
Sun, 08-28-2005 - 9:30am

The more I think about it, I'll bet what happened is his son was here for the summer visitiation and just left.

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Registered: 06-30-2003
Sun, 08-28-2005 - 11:05am

It probably wasn't just a booty call. I'm sure he's got feelings for you, but his character is weak. He couldn't leave you a message. That's weak.

He might have good intentions towards you sometimes, but he's a waffler and it's good that you just let the phone ring. I hope you can keep yourself from contacting him back.

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Registered: 02-19-2004
Sun, 08-28-2005 - 11:14am

I know he has feelings for me, but it's not enough.

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Registered: 06-30-2003
Sun, 08-28-2005 - 5:09pm
Wow, you sound amazing and smart. Best wishes.
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Registered: 08-23-2006
Sun, 08-28-2005 - 8:08pm

I have to chime in here, even though I mostly just lurk.

iVillage Member
Registered: 02-19-2004
Sun, 08-28-2005 - 8:44pm

Thanks for delurking and for your words.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 08-23-2006
Sun, 08-28-2005 - 8:55pm

These 2 men sound a lot alike.

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