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| Fri, 08-10-2007 - 10:00am |
Do one thing that re-connects you both or brings you both closer together and share it on Monday.
This could be sharing something with him you haven't shared yet.
It could be doing something small to him that he doesn't expect from you
It could be getting out of the "RUT" of the relationship if things are a little stale
It could be initiating sex
It could be saying something to him out of the blue that makes him feel good
Now when you have done something like this, I want you to everyday, starting today, try this experiment (I heard it does wonders): Kiss him for 4 minutes on the lips. Keep your lips together for 4 minutes. Now if it seems to long, try it for 2 minutes. You might have a squirmer on you, so 2 minutes can be long for him, but see if you feel a closer connection.
Now the reason I say to try these experiments is that it reconnects the relationship, but my major reasoning is: report back and let us know if he somehow CHANGED a little towards you. Got a little closer or did something that YOU didnt' expect. Or if you both felt more connected.
Can't wait to hear this one too.
So those daring to take my challenge, sign up......

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We did this kind of backwards. He seemed to take the reigns without reading Cat's post.
This could be sharing something with him you haven't shared yet.
>>>He talked to me about wanting to be like a father to my son. My son's dad is absent totally.
It could be doing something small to him that he doesn't expect from you
>>>He heled my son clean his room, took my garbage out, and mowed my lawn.
It could be getting out of the "RUT" of the relationship if things are a little stale
>>>He asked at last if we could all (He, me, and my son) spend the night at his place regularly. He has a nice extra bedroom furnished with a twin bed.
It could be initiating sex
>>>> we take turns at this... ;)
It could be saying something to him out of the blue that makes him feel good
>>>He's not very verbal, and neither am I. We rarely talk on the phone or email. So when call me to let me know how his business trip this week was going, I was happily surprised.
Edited 8/16/2007 9:32 pm ET by ubersilly
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