This is what I wrote him today and I feel weird but better that I got it out:
You know I’m probably one of the most honest outspoken people you’ve talked to in awhile. So I need to say this and get this off my chest, because it’s how I feel and I think I just need to be honest about my feelings with you at all times.
Yes, exactly, I rather feel that if he isn't ready to make a decision then he needs to look someplace else first and not use me during that time for his enjoyement until someone better comes along to entertain him.
Not meant in a mean way, but I just have no room to be kicked to the curb once the healing is done and the energy has been sucked out of me.
It shows you have good integrity and good self preservation and respect. And I like your solution!! I like the whole thing a lot!!
Now see what he says!!
"A kiss in a very intimate and emotional thing and it’s something I would want us to share when we are both feeling comfortable and truly ready, along with intimacy in general. I just don’t want that kind of pressure on either of us now. I feel the entire circumstance has put a pressure on us and it makes me sad, because this is definitely not where I want to be. I want to be in a happy zone with you and not with feelings of doubt and confusion."
AGREED. And a kiss is a lot like ruffles potato chips - you can't have just one! LOL!! I am of the mind that I am not going to be mixing casual dating and real kissing - they have to be my boyfriend for that - because I don't want to have confusion of the heart. So I am with you on this one for sure.
EXACTLY!! I can't imagine how tough this is for you. You are doing a GREAT job handling things!! It is so hard to be totally logical when feelings are involved...
Ok, so I googled her in vital records and found out she died January 2nd. That is 10 weeks today and strangely enough the day I broke up with Nascar. ANYWAY, an additional 8 weeks are definitely in order, which would put him at almost 5 months and in my mind is much more appropriate.
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This is what I wrote him today and I feel weird but better that I got it out:
You know I’m probably one of the most honest outspoken people you’ve talked to in awhile. So I need to say this and get this off my chest, because it’s how I feel and I think I just need to be honest about my feelings with you at all times.
Blowing sunshine up skirts.... ah I would like to be able to do that *grin*
Yes, exactly, I rather feel that if he isn't ready to make a decision then he needs to look someplace else first and not use me during that time for his enjoyement until someone better comes along to entertain him.
Not meant in a mean way, but I just have no room to be kicked to the curb once the healing is done and the energy has been sucked out of me.
GOOD!!!!!!!!
It shows you have good integrity and good self preservation and respect. And I like your solution!! I like the whole thing a lot!!
Now see what he says!!
"A kiss in a very intimate and emotional thing and it’s something I would want us to share when we are both feeling comfortable and truly ready, along with intimacy in general. I just don’t want that kind of pressure on either of us now. I feel the entire circumstance has put a pressure on us and it makes me sad, because this is definitely not where I want to be. I want to be in a happy zone with you and not with feelings of doubt and confusion."
AGREED. And a kiss is a lot like ruffles potato chips - you can't have just one! LOL!! I am of the mind that I am not going to be mixing casual dating and real kissing - they have to be my boyfriend for that - because I don't want to have confusion of the heart. So I am with you on this one for sure.
I agree.
"Mark who has plenty of sunshine to blow, just needs someplaces to put it in..."
YOU are hilarious today!!
My thought is: If he feels that I am not worth him trying to give himself two extra months to make things better and more acceptable for us,
Agreed!!!
Your email to him is very good. If he agrees- then he is seeing value in not rushing and respecting what you two could be together. If he does
Ok, so I googled her in vital records and found out she died January 2nd. That is 10 weeks today and strangely enough the day I broke up with Nascar. ANYWAY, an additional 8 weeks are definitely in order, which would put him at almost 5 months and in my mind is much more appropriate.
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