I *despise* my X!!!!!!!!!!

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Registered: 03-15-2004
I *despise* my X!!!!!!!!!!
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Thu, 05-31-2007 - 9:18pm

Things have been fairly sane & quiet. He hasnt been causing any issues, has seemingly been in a fairly decent mood when I drop dd off or pick her up. I even LOANED HIM $75 on Sat, b/c things had been so calm for about 6 weeks or so, I was hoping helping him out a bit would keep things on an even keel. NOT so!


Earlier today, freind dropped dd, age 7, at dance & X

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Registered: 04-16-2000
Sat, 06-02-2007 - 6:44pm

Oh boy!!! I'm usually all for fostering the relationship between parent and child and not holding on to bitterness in order for the child to thrive with both parents but he has some MAJOR issues and I think you'd be doing the right thing by taking away his visitation privelages~even if temporarily~until he gets the help that he so obviously needs. I feel so bad for Avery. Every child deserves to be loved unconditionally and it just seems like he's using her as a pawn and taking out his frustrations on her~not fair!

Good luck and hugs to you and Avery!!!!!!

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