I DID IT broke up and now i am

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Registered: 09-05-2003
I DID IT broke up and now i am
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Tue, 06-28-2005 - 10:44am
well after ur posts and my gut feeling we broke up... actually.. i said we had to talk that night and he sort of snapped out and ended while we were on the phone (me at work and him at the bar) i didnt really have any closure because he hung up the phone and thur was the last i heard of him, i called this weekend, and he didnt answer my calls.. i had a biopsy done on friday and he didnt even call to see how it went, after this i realize i made the right decision but it just hurts to no that i spent the last 9 months with him and he just cut everything off (well actaully i did) but is being so rude wont answer my calls and im devistated
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Registered: 05-13-2005
Tue, 06-28-2005 - 11:03am

HUGS honeyap. YOu did the right thing. He just proved it by being childish and defensive - just a reaction to being rejected. I am sure he knew it was coming.

I know you feel sad now but please don't. You have a lot going for you - a house - a good job - support you and your child - that says a lot!!

Stay here and be with us!! You will have sad moments - but you have the rest of your life!! Someone good will come for you.

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Registered: 06-30-2003
Tue, 06-28-2005 - 11:15am

He's not answering your calls because he got his feelings hurt. He's trying to hurt you back.

If I were you, I wouldn't call him again. If he calls you, I wouldn't answer the call. It sucks because you spent 9 months with him and in the beginning, I'm sure you really, really liked him. You'll find someone better.

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Registered: 02-19-2004
Tue, 06-28-2005 - 11:49am

HUGE HUGS! I am going through the same break up pain, although I guess I'm mostly through it now. Go back in the archives from the beginning of May if you want to read about my breakup. It's hard. I guess I was the one that broke up too, but it's not what I wanted. I wanted the relationship to work, but I had to admit it wasn't working and wasn't going to work long-term. I don't feel like I lost a year 1/2, I feel I gained a year 1/2 of very valuable much needed relationship experience. The next man I chose will be better for me because of what I have learned about relationships and myself.

But more importantly, what were the results of your biopsy? Are you okay?

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