I DID IT broke up and now i am
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I DID IT broke up and now i am
| Tue, 06-28-2005 - 10:44am |
well after ur posts and my gut feeling we broke up... actually.. i said we had to talk that night and he sort of snapped out and ended while we were on the phone (me at work and him at the bar) i didnt really have any closure because he hung up the phone and thur was the last i heard of him, i called this weekend, and he didnt answer my calls.. i had a biopsy done on friday and he didnt even call to see how it went, after this i realize i made the right decision but it just hurts to no that i spent the last 9 months with him and he just cut everything off (well actaully i did) but is being so rude wont answer my calls and im devistated

HUGS honeyap. YOu did the right thing. He just proved it by being childish and defensive - just a reaction to being rejected. I am sure he knew it was coming.
I know you feel sad now but please don't. You have a lot going for you - a house - a good job - support you and your child - that says a lot!!
Stay here and be with us!! You will have sad moments - but you have the rest of your life!! Someone good will come for you.
He's not answering your calls because he got his feelings hurt. He's trying to hurt you back.
If I were you, I wouldn't call him again. If he calls you, I wouldn't answer the call. It sucks because you spent 9 months with him and in the beginning, I'm sure you really, really liked him. You'll find someone better.
HUGE HUGS! I am going through the same break up pain, although I guess I'm mostly through it now. Go back in the archives from the beginning of May if you want to read about my breakup. It's hard. I guess I was the one that broke up too, but it's not what I wanted. I wanted the relationship to work, but I had to admit it wasn't working and wasn't going to work long-term. I don't feel like I lost a year 1/2, I feel I gained a year 1/2 of very valuable much needed relationship experience. The next man I chose will be better for me because of what I have learned about relationships and myself.
But more importantly, what were the results of your biopsy? Are you okay?