I didnt get what i wanted...but

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I didnt get what i wanted...but
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Tue, 06-17-2008 - 12:10pm

I got a taste. CP was NOT arrested but he did go and pay his full back support yesterday so I should be getting a check soon (fingers crossed...it is throught he state though). So he shows up with no atty and my lawyer jumps to his feet and says now im annoyed...YIPPEE. I figure hes going for blood now. Not so much...we worked out a visitation schedule thats better for all of us (including my DD). For the summer hes still on his tuesday day only since he still has no car. I will continue to drive with him paying me $20 each week for gas - no pay -no go. When oct 16 hits he is to have her every other weekend (like normal people do it) and hes to pick up and drop off (his skank applied for a drivers license and i said i was fine with it). we alternate thanksgiving, i get christmas eve until christmas morn at 11 he picks her up and drives her home by 7pm christmas night. he gets fathers day (hes to provide transportation) I pretty much stuck all driving on him since he said they were getting a car. My atty and i both looked at him and said ok we shall see. Hey more power to them if they get one. He asked for two weeks for vacation and i said no 1. This was after i said we are going to disney in nov and he snaps back we are going for 2 weeks in december. OK all...lets pick it apart lie by lie...he mentioned he was getting married in a month and my atty said wow thats been a long month..shes really been holding out huh...LOL almost peed a little on that one. so lets run it down...


1. Wedding – ummm that’s been happening for 3 months now


2. Disney 2 weeks

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Wed, 06-18-2008 - 1:03pm

Minimal information and redirection are key.


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Wed, 06-18-2008 - 1:23pm

Gaggghhh we could have been seperated at birth. She threatened the same with me and i had my coat on and my dds and she said walk out that door and dont ever come back. I said im sorry you feel that way and kept going...she quickly turned it around that she was just so "frustrated" with CP that it works her up...LOL Her...its all about her. I would have been irate if my mother called my atty...im sure his secty would call me and say do you know that your mom is calling...I can honestly say i LOVE my atty and his staff.


OH well like i said before DD and i have big plans for friday night at the zoo and i cant wait. We are gonna hit the beach this weekend again to...without Grandma-ma :0)


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Registered: 08-08-2007
Wed, 06-18-2008 - 2:40pm

M!!


Oh my God what a morning for you. I'm just now trying to catch up on things going on here today. Your meeting with the attys and the ex and TBH....drama city!! I'm so glad that is over and you survived that.


It sounds to me that every time cp opens his mouth it only makes things worse for him. It is great how the truth will always surface..and it will happen in your faveor. You've been through the ringer, M. I can't imagine the stress you felt today. I am happy that you got your case validated and you were heard!!


How about some baskin robbins double chocolate chip to celebrate? I'll buy, lol!!

~Pacific~
~Pacific~
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Registered: 03-11-2004
Wed, 06-18-2008 - 2:48pm

LOL Pac I beat you to it...i hit the Edys double churned choco-chip-mint with hersheys and whipped cream last night...LOL Had such a big bowl I almost hurled...LOL Poor dog just sat there drooling and looking at her biscuits like WTF B? I dont want those gimme sum of dat! LOL


Im better today...still getting headaches though so ill check into that soon i guess...for now the excedrin is helping a little


It was great to hear him squirm and fight with TBH. I felt pitty for him...sort of...more like watching a worm dry up in the sun and you sort of want to push it into the grass but know its not gonna help and its still sort of slimy to the touch

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Wed, 06-18-2008 - 2:56pm

~Pacific~
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Wed, 06-18-2008 - 8:16pm
Well this is a good start. I want to see him paying those atty fees though at least to make him think twice before he starts another frivolous court hearing. I like the part about him telling TBH he is not going back in there to get destroyed. He knows the judge won't put up with his BS. Good luck with it all and I hope your stress level can start to subside soon. Just don't let them get to you and make you lose it; there is strength in being able to rise above their trashy behavior and if your mom can't then leave her at home. (oh but I know it can be hard) When possible, bring the prince for support. I know you don't want to lean too much but he seems to have a calming influence and he has the advantage of being a little more detached from the immediate emotions in this situation. You are one strong woman and I so happy to see you making progress that will benefit both you and your daughter in moving forward. Aren't two year olds absolutely adorable with their little personalities starting to shine!!! That is what I think about to get me through my own stress; I am my son's world and that is such a wonderful gift for me.

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