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| Thu, 12-18-2008 - 2:35pm |
Ok so this is sort of a continuation from my previous rant...Mr. M and i had plans for tonight and he was going to email me this morning...nothing, nada, zip then just a short while ago he sends one. Telling me sorry ive been busy, feeling better but super tired...blah blah blah. We'd see each other soon promise bs bs bs ANYWAY, so I play coy and say No biggie get better totally forgot i have a Christmas party for work anyway (and FYI this is a PRIMO party by one of our vendors - 5 star restaurant, top shelf open bar super good time (drank WAY to much last year - sort of along the lines of Loonys christmas party story onyl add major blubbering at the end of the night to a male co-worker over why CP didnt love me anymore...ROFLMAO pretty funny now that i think about it) anyway guess whos back up my butt now that i have other plans??? Yup Mr. M is emailing left and right even offered to babysit DD for me...HELLO??? Explain the male species to me cause im missin it...
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Don't get mad at me for trying to be the voice of reason, BUT... do you really want to start playing games with him?
I'm with you, I'm too old for the crappy games too.
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Tracy
I wouldn't turn the phone off- just don't reply to every call/ message... since he's likely to wonder if you're "ok" and you can just text him back saying that, "yes, thank you, had a GREAT time at the party..."
OK So i had Moon in the back of my head tonight on my way home (didnt stay at the party to long) and I called him just to say hey goodnight hope youre feeling better and looking forward to seeing you soon and NO ANSWER...then when i was in moms house picking up DD he leaves a really weird message that his phone wasnt working and he just got my message and he'll talk to me at some point. Huh?? Hes got the upper hand again...ooohhh way to lose control of the ball M...duh! So as Ali said i will ignore calls and not all but most. Im not as accessible as he thinks anymore.
Now the party as always was stellar. They had waiters bringing around kobe beef in a blanket, tuna pizza which was tuna on a bed of ricecake, jumbo shrimp wrapped in bacon, steak tar tar (sp?), then they had a hot table with lobster mac n cheese, pastas, chicken marsala...just crazy. I didnt stay long though because dd has a big party at daycare tomorrow and she made cupcakes with mom and i felt like i really missed out on something. Ahh my party days are so over (for now - i guess when shes 18 it will be different) but for now i really just enjoy being a mommy.
Yup! Agreed with pacsun. Once you have other things going on in your life, especially parties and social stuff then you become all that much more attractive to other men. So are you going to go out with him?
Laurie
Well, you called and checked in with him, good enough for now. I think you need to decide if you REALLY like him or are just going along because he does show interest (at times). I wouldn't want to play games or feel like a head case :(
Take a few days to your self and see how you feel at the end of it.
And enjoy being a mom :)
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