I don't know why but this really...
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I don't know why but this really...
| Mon, 10-13-2008 - 11:48pm |
Annoyed the Heck out of me! ....I get a email from SB about meeting for lunch today and he said this....You always smell so nice but could you not wear perfume today? It sort of sticks with me....

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You know, that would make me wonder as well.
Have you asked if he's seeing anyone else?
Things that definitely make you go "Hmmmmmm?"
What are you going to do? Ask him about it?
This would not raise a red flag for me.
that would make me wonder too. Is it possible he works in a place that is against fragrances? Or Clients? This is a big deal around here in the area hospitals and large office buildings not to wear fragrance.
If not, ask? I know I would.
JL
Initially, it wouldn't raise a red flag. Although, maybe his second answer would. HOWEVER... before jumping off the deep end, think about this:
MEN! Have you thought that maybe other guys will smell it on him and think he's Feminine? Or make fun of him seeing his girlfriend and making leud comments? Or that maybe he's not supposed to be having lunch today with you and told someone that he was going someplace else? Or maybe he likes having his privacy and the smell would be telling?
Sooo many reasons! None of which would make me think "other" woman. UNLESS, your gut instinct is that he is seeing someone else. Any signs that make you think he is? Otherwise, I would just shrug it off as a guy thing.
I never used to wear perfume or lotion when seeing someone during work hours, because I felt I didn't want the man dating that I saw to smell like roses or perfume. Not a very good work enviroment for a manly man to show up smelling like flowers and perfume in front of a lot of other guys. LOL. That could result in "talk". LOL.
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