I don't know why but this really...
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I don't know why but this really...
| Mon, 10-13-2008 - 11:48pm |
Annoyed the Heck out of me! ....I get a email from SB about meeting for lunch today and he said this....You always smell so nice but could you not wear perfume today? It sort of sticks with me....

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Although he said he likes the smell, I think it has to do with him personally smelling like it. I can understand that. I don't want to go around smelling like mans cologne, although nice and sexy, I just rather wear what I wear. :)
Anyway, communication.. calm, low toned, communication, I found is the key and not letting it fester up.
I have been bugged the last week that RF worries too much and then it distracts him and he gets sooo silent. He hasn't asked at all this week when we'll see each other and that I always have to bring it up. Finally, after him not saying anything about us meeting up, it started to really bug me. I began thinking that maybe he doesn't want to see me. Maybe he rather do something with his friends and he doesn't know how to tell me. Maybe something is bugging him with us....
So my mind goes around and around. Finally, when I forgot a bag at the Hobby Store, due to frustration and mind wandering about RF, I decided to just ask him.
I told him how I wanted to leave it alone, but realized that forgetting stuff and mind wandering was really bugging me and potentially dangerous when driving. LOL.
I then asked him if he thought we were spending too much time together? Or if he still felt like he wanted to see only me or if something else was bugging him regarding us.
He was totally taken aback. No clue whatsoever that their was an issue. His explanation was, that he always assumes we'll be together and that he didn't realize I wanted to be asked. I said, well, it would be nice, because I can't read your mind and I wouldn't want to take you away from you friends or make you feel bad if you did. WELLLLLL, then I began to tell him how little signs of us not making any real plans kind of bugged me. That we spent a beautiful Fall day doing nothing and that we've made plans, but haven't done of it yet. We've only talked about it and when I bring it up, he doesn't seem so interested and how that made me feel.
He felt awful and apologetic and said he guesses he has some things to work on, because he's crazy about me, thinks of me all the time and wants to spend all his time with me.
Anyway, communication, being open and not letting things fester is working much better then when I used to let myself go crazy over nothing, or sometimes even over something that I ligitimately had a reason to be nuts about.
Hmm. Yea, I'd be suspicious. But, there is the possibility that he got "razzed" by his guys friends for smelling like sweat pea boquettes lol.
I think I would ask him who specifically noticed the scent. And its fine to wear less, you'll do that if his request is because of something like that or if he just plain thought it was just plain too strong.
My daughter used to wear something from VS that literally made me sick to my stomach and gave me a headache.
Same thing with me, Marie. There is a scent by VS that literally makes me nauseous.
I know for me, that even though I may like a scent, sometimes it gets in my nose and that is all I smell for the rest of the day.
ITA with Kat.
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