I ended things.....
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| Fri, 01-11-2008 - 12:57pm |
I am very sad, because I care so VERY much about Nascar, but I know deep down, I did the right thing. I thought very hard about it and the entire stress about the children and his low tolerance for kids was what I just didn't want in my life. He portrayed things to be different, but when actually put to the test he failed miserably (too long to recap). I talked to him about it again on Wednesday, because I just felt more was missing then just him having to take it slow.
He told me he just had a hard time dealing with little children and had a low tolerance and high stress around them. He enjoyed my oldest because she is so quiet and shy, but he had trouble with my youngest and dealing with her energy and emotions. Thats ok, but that would never change.
I know how

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I am so sorry for you precious but at least you did find out early enough.
April
I just thought of something else - GOOD POINT about the grandkids!! I didn't think of that - but you are so right. You need one that is child friendly for that reason, too.
Wow, good for you on recognizing that it was not going to work out and how respectfully you ended it.
It's so hard to break it off with someone you like but you know it's not going to work out. It's always in your head "If they could just change ONE thing." And even if they did try to change that one thing they would more than likely be miserable and then that's just stress on everyone.
I hope your sadness leaves soon.
Absolutely!
Rebecca, Mom to Averey, 2/8/00, Kibo, Sana & Zuri too!
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