I got my answer!

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I got my answer!
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Wed, 04-23-2008 - 9:17pm

Well, I didn't call MCDAD at all yesterday. We chatted today, actually about 20 minutes ago. I came out and asked him about us.....He was quiet and I finally said that if you don't want to hang out anymore tell me. I will be sad but not mad. He paused and I said just say it. He says he's not used to having someone call him or visit him(rode trip on my way to LA) like a real relationship. So he thinks it's best if we take a break for a while. I said ok, hope you feel better(he had an absessed tooth) and bye.


Nothing left to do but cry for a bit...cus...I need to...not sob, just shed some tears........listen to our "song" Magic by Colbie Calliat over and over again......(he said it reminded him of me)


me...who's siggie saying is no a reality...........



~~Tiny


You said you couldn't stand to see my heart broken...so when you broke it, did you close your eyes?




Edited 4/23/2008 9:25 pm ET by notjust_mom

~Karen
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Wed, 04-23-2008 - 9:25pm

(((HUGS))) Honey!

April

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Wed, 04-23-2008 - 9:25pm

Oh Tiny, I'm sorry.

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Wed, 04-23-2008 - 9:28pm
He is worth the tears....I know things work out the way they are supposed to.

~~Tiny


You said you couldn't stand to see my heart broken...so when you broke it, did you close your eyes?

~Karen
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Wed, 04-23-2008 - 9:29pm

Awwwwwww I'm so sorry to hear about this.

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Wed, 04-23-2008 - 9:33pm

Hugs, Tiny... but WTF about his comment here- "He says he's not used to having someone call him or visit him(rode trip on my way to LA) like a real relationship."


So if he can't get "used to" experiencing something like a real relationship, then what in the world was he getting involved to begin with?!?!? Jerk- if he is just wanting the fling but none of the connecting.


Definitely NEXT!!!! I know you're hurting about him... but at the same time, I hope you can see just how wrong he obviously was for you, and know that you WILL find better. And I'm glad you didn't end up investing

~shrimpy

"A man who wants something will find a way; a man who doesn't will find an excuse." ~Stephen Dolley Jr.

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Wed, 04-23-2008 - 10:22pm

I agree! How old IS he? What the heck IS he looking for???

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Wed, 04-23-2008 - 10:33pm

Hugs Tiny,


Crying is good for you... now you can move on.. well, take a moment for chocolate or something for yourself... I like shopping myself... there will be others... take the good, leave the bad behind.


Glad you found this board.


Love,


Loonybunny

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Wed, 04-23-2008 - 10:35pm

Awww - I know it was not the answer you are looking for. And it probably has nothing to do with you - sounds like he is not ready for a relationship and not looking for one or wanting one with you. But whatever.

You know what? Everyone has a right to an opinion and everyone has a different opinion. And next time you are going to do better - you are going to wait for the person whose opinion is that you are great and they want a relationship with you. Because that is what you deserve and it is worth waiting for!

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Thu, 04-24-2008 - 1:06am

((((((Tiny))))))


I'm sorry. I know you are sad over him right now. But please know that this will get better. he was not ready for a relationship for whatever reason, they were his reasons. It has nothing to do with you.


There are so many guys out there who ARE ready for a wonderful person like you to shower him with affection and love! You deserve soooo much better than Mcdad.


Peace and love to you.....hugs, Tiny!


~Pacific~
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Thu, 04-24-2008 - 2:04am

Tears are cathartic for me. I love Colbie Caillat. I got to see her in concert here in Portland.

This is from the movie "Once" which the song "Falling Slowly" won the Oscar. This particular song seems apropos to share with you:
http://youtube.com/watch?v=0k_Pe_iNYO4&feature=related

Take care,
Mark

We're fools whether we dance or not, so we might as well dance. ~Japanese Proverb




Edited 4/24/2008 2:12 am ET by mhash

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