I guess this is a good time...

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Registered: 12-10-2003
I guess this is a good time...
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Fri, 02-17-2006 - 10:25am

...to introduce myself as I am sitting at work staring out at a blanket of snow with very little to do at my desk. I have been a regular visitor at iVillage for a couple of years andnow find this Board to be most relevant to me at this point in time. I left an abusive marriage 2 years ago, took my DD and DS (now 7 and 3) packed up the car and never looked back. I have full custody and while xh is still around town his involvement is sporadic but fortunately his parents are still very invovled wiht the kids. Like all of us here my life is busy, Iwork full time and try to balance family time and me time with mixed results, LOL. I tried to date briefly about 6-8 months after my separation but discovered quite quickly that I wasnt ready for it and have been just working on being happy and healthy and ensuring my kids are happy and secure before taking any tentative steps inthat direction again. Now I think the time has come...gulp...to put my foot in the water so to speak. I'm not looking for marriage or even love but I would like to "like" again if you know what I mean. Well, I guess thats it for now...I think you are a great bunch of women and I look forward to hanging out a bit more around here.

Lisa

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Registered: 04-08-2003
Fri, 02-17-2006 - 11:15am

Hey Lisa,


Several of us have been through mentally or abusive relationships, as well as a few of us have X's that have no relationship to their children. Therefore, we can relate well to what you are saying. This board helped me so much and I have made some wonderful friends on it. So stick around and keep us updated. Doesn't have to be date related; it can be whatever you like.

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Registered: 05-13-2005
Sat, 02-18-2006 - 11:37am

Welcome, Lisa,we are so lucky to have you. It is great that you had the strength to get out of an abusive marriage.

We look forward to sharing experiences with you!

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Registered: 04-17-2003
Sat, 02-18-2006 - 1:03pm
Hi Lisa! I'm glad you stopped lurking and decided to join us. I am single Mom with a 14 y/o DS and 10 y/o DD. I have been divorced for 4 years and have recently decided to try dating again. I haven't had alot of luck in that area, but things appear to be looking up. You will find the ladies here to be very supportive and lots of good advice. I look forward to reading your posts!
Stephanie