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| Tue, 04-04-2006 - 5:14pm |
Well...new guy isn't so new anymore. He was really nice in the beginning when we first started dating. However, as the days/weeks progressed, his true colors started to shine through. He wasn't as nice as he appeared to be. He was very bossy, a little controlling, and very temperamental. So, I told him, as nicely as I could, that I didn't think that we should keep seeing each other. When I told him this his first response was that we were going to keep seeing each other. Then he told me that he would work on things, not be bossy, ect., but...don't they all say those sorta things when they're not getting what the want/their way? So...since he continued to keep dragging things out, I told him that we just both wanted different things and that we could date, I just didn't think that we should be in some full blown deep relationship. He's called me numerous times since we talked about this, even once "upset/crying" a little. But...better to end it now than later. I was in a controlling relationship with my exh, I'm not about to be in another one.
With all of that said, the doctor and I have started going on dates again. We never stopped talking; chatted at least 3 times a week, but went out on a date Saturday night. We are also entering a singing contest this month together. He's going to play the guitar for me and I'm going to sing. It's really exciting actually. We're going to practice again tonight. He's really laid back and down to earth. He's never bossy either..lol! Actually, I feel like I'm the dominant person when we're together, which is very unusual for me. I mean, don't get me wrong, I'm not telling him what to do or anything, but he's just the type of person who would rather me make the decision (ie: where to eat, what we do, etc.). I'm going to see where this leads..lol!
Hope everyone is doing well and having a great week!
Kait

Kait, I'm glad the new guy showed his ture colors before you were too deeply entrenched, and also VERY glad you were smart enough to end it!! It's good to know the doctor is there, and good to know you're enjoying each others' company.
My week so far has been busy, crazy hectic, but that's part of life. If the weather would get back to spring, it'd be a lot more enjoyable, but there's nothing I can do about that.
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Kait,
Glad you saw this guy's true colours and decided it wasn't for you.