I have been bad lately..LOL

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I have been bad lately..LOL
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Sun, 03-11-2007 - 11:25pm

I am not looking for commitment..at all anymore..LOL I am telling guys that now though..but at first i didnt tell them that.


Relationships cause drama..lol

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Registered: 03-15-2004
Sun, 03-11-2007 - 11:58pm

Yeah, Im there .... sort of.

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Registered: 01-17-2004
Mon, 03-12-2007 - 12:19am
LOL I have someone for sex too..he got a phone call at 2am from me today ;)
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Mon, 03-12-2007 - 8:22am

Shannon, you aren't alone. I am currently looking for a relationship, but I wasn't always. At this point, I'm not telling every guy I'm dating unless they ask- there's simply no need, since a relationship will either develop or it won't.

When I was just casually dating to have fun and meet new people, I did tell them, especially if it seemed like they might want more. I wouldn't ever want to lead someone on, or make anyone think something might happen if I knew I didn't want it to.

Casual dating can be a very fun place to be- it isn't at all bad... unless and until you get sick of it, at which point you'll reevaluate what's working for you versus what isn't.

Have fun, keep us posted,

Moody, not trying to casually date


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Registered: 01-18-2007
Mon, 03-12-2007 - 1:01pm

I'll chime in and just also say you are not alone. Read "The Ethical Slut" sometime. It really helped me to get through gate so I could let go and have fun.

Try to remember that having some fun is not necessarily "bad." Especially if you are not sworn to someone and you find someone with a mutual need and desire.

I would say probably each of us has some upward limit, and the risk grows as the numbers go up, so it is something that does need to say in check.

I will also issue the standard line about being careful. I get that warning from everyone, but we all need to be.

Ask the right questions too...is this someone I want in my history, is he a threat? Does he look healthy?

Once that's done, HAVE A BLAST!