I have come a long way.........

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I have come a long way.........
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Tue, 01-15-2008 - 11:10pm

I am quite proud of myself.

mom_uk2socal - Mom to DS22, DS19, DD16

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Fri, 01-18-2008 - 9:31am

I am so sorry to hear about your friends passing.

April

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Fri, 01-18-2008 - 6:06pm
soonee thankyou for your kind words of support and encouragement.

mom_uk2socal - Mom to DS22, DS19, DD16

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Fri, 01-18-2008 - 6:18pm
I was very touched by your sentiments - yes with all I have learnt from her I guess she will be still guiding me, I often think of her words of wisdom when I am doing my analyzing or in a dilemna or crisis.

mom_uk2socal - Mom to DS22, DS19, DD16

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Fri, 01-18-2008 - 11:17pm

Oh honey, I'm sorry about the loss of your friend (((HUGS))).


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Sat, 01-19-2008 - 1:55am

I am of the belief that everything happens for a reason.

April

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Sat, 01-19-2008 - 2:33pm
Thankyou Alison for the sentiments and cyber hugs.

mom_uk2socal - Mom to DS22, DS19, DD16

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Sat, 01-19-2008 - 2:48pm

Yes, I understand.


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Mon, 01-21-2008 - 9:52am

I think.... losing someone you love has a lot of anger associated with it.

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Mon, 01-21-2008 - 10:02am

Hello! I sayd don't worry about it just as you are doing. If you guys have been hitting it off since New Years then he may just be having somethings that he is working on within so it probably is nothing personal. Being that you two are not in a relationship he may just be giving you time to adjust. I have found that guys often assume alot as far as what we women are thinking- which is not good b/c its best to ask (inquire). If he is assuming that you need time to gather where you want to take things then he is-just as you said sitting back waiting on you to make that move. He could have gotten shy & scared b/c things were going well & I know even with me that can be scary especially when you are used to things being messed up or weird. I say you are doing good-hang in there and if he does not call them one man's trash is always another man's treasure. I don't know how old you are but at least you have the good mind to be at home tending to yournormal life instead of out in the streets looking for the next best thing to meet. Good things come to those who wait so you will be just fine-celebrate the fact that you are a single mom who is not depending on a call but know you so deserve the call you will get from the one who is tryully for you.

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Mon, 01-21-2008 - 7:00pm

the "hissy fit with God" was a good one - thanks for the smile Soonee.


call me slow - but i didnt totally understand :


I hope that seeing one possible source of that 'beating yourself up' will help you have more compassion with yourself.

mom_uk2socal - Mom to DS22, DS19, DD16

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