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I need to be honest and I hope its ok
| Tue, 12-28-2004 - 5:28pm |
Best of luck all!!
MaryBeth
Edited 12/29/2004 10:31 am ET ET by mbfun
MaryBeth
Edited 12/29/2004 10:31 am ET ET by mbfun

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I would also love to hear about your first married Christmas!! And a synopsis of your first year of marriage - has there been anything hard?
You make it look so easy - and you didn't even have anything to say about step parenting. Is that hard?
Tell us more!!
Thanks Mel and West (and everybody else!) --
I wanted to first officially
There were times for me that no advice made sense or made me feel better. And times I considered not coming to this bb any more because I felt some people were being too rough on me. I won't name names, ok? LOL Who remembers when I was such a whiner?! Go on, you know it's true! LOL
I finally conquered some of my own crap, self esteem problems and feeling defeated by life. I did some cognitive therapy and got rid of the depression I have suffered all my life before now. And I see that no one was being mean to me, just offering their own life experience and advice. Some of which applied to me and some of which didn't. It was up to me to pick and choose.
I hope you do hang around. If you don't feel like talking, just lurk once in awhile. And do what you need for yourself. You can get past this.
And all of you are lucky to have eachother obviously due to the loyalty shown in my thread here!! -- to include everyone married single divorced or not despite the title of the board...
I didnt mean to sound unappreciateve or that I have felt ANGERED or bothered...I didnt come accross right in my original post and I just dont know HOW to make it come accross in the proper way and all it has done is create a negative view of me...bothers me alot I did that-- wasnt my intention-- but whats done is done.
To Becky-- all the luck and love in the world to you in your marriage and luck with the pregnancy!! Thank you for taking all the time to show me love and concern in my rants and raves :)
To Mel-- the same to you !!!
Maggie- you are so amazing and I know I came accross as a hypocryte - again wasnt my intention- you are someone all of us look to for advice as you are a role model for us all!
To Mom of twins-- hey baby-- things will look up for you and you are awesome!
To firstamendment-- hugs to you for your hurt and frustration and pain that I understand - and another huge one for being the only one who was strong and like me voiced unpopular thoughts and took that risk...
To Revenoc, Phxaz2004, west1745, comountainsprite, mmlife, sunshinemin (sorry for striking a nerve) and I appreciate your thoughts and support when I needed them
I have obviously outed myself and taking my crayons and leaving!! (again)
Happy new year to all!
MaryBeth
We are always here for you. The crayons don't need to go so far or be permanently gone. I think you have had a very hard year but at the same time have good achievements with your move and new place. I know the holidays have taken a toll on most of us. I don't think we would be in this boat if not for that.
So, bon voyage, but hurry back home!!
"I have obviously outed myself and taking my crayons and leaving!! (again)"
Hi MB,
I appreciated your post, but why would you leave?
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