I NEED SOME MATCH.COM HELP!

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I NEED SOME MATCH.COM HELP!
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Wed, 03-12-2008 - 10:38pm

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Wed, 03-12-2008 - 11:03pm

So now on top of everything else you have to play the waiting game... that sucks!

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Registered: 09-11-2007
Wed, 03-12-2008 - 11:03pm

I checked again - copy and paste - got the same thing.


Maybe he is thinking about what you wrote.

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Wed, 03-12-2008 - 11:05pm
I'm not a paying member, but I do have an account and can search.
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Wed, 03-12-2008 - 11:07pm
Thanks everyone! Yes, it obvious he pulled his profile so that is very positive no matter in what direction he goes. I think the fact that he did, showed that he might have felt he was jumping the gun a little bit and possibly did need more time. I did stress the importance of re-evaluating where he really was with everything. I think he is pulling back now. Either for good or for awhile. I do think he will eventually contact me, but yes, I guess I'll be keeping busy, not to mention I feel a little like crying right now, because it sucks that it all had to be this hard again. I feel quiet ill right now, but at least I did what
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Wed, 03-12-2008 - 11:44pm
Oh no:( my heart leapt out when I saw this post. I can imagine how you might feel. I have had similar moments. We all have Im afraid but you have had too much of your share Cat! But honestly, this might be exactly what you asked for -he could have read what you wrote , allowed it to resonate in him and taken his profile down to give it all some thought. I would assume that instead of anything else that you might have rolling around in that pretty head of yours and just , as you said, keep busy. Visualize the possibility that one day when he is back in touch he will thank you for being so honest with him about your needs and your concerns for everyone involved. I think with a bit of space, you will get exactly that regardless of what kind of relationship you two end up with.
BIG HUGS...
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Thu, 03-13-2008 - 2:43am
I agree. Sending your Magic Dust. Wishing the best. Giving you (((HUGS)))
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Thu, 03-13-2008 - 7:22am

I was really upset last night, but I think I'm more relieved that he decided to just not pursue OLD right now. I have gut instinct I won't be hearing from him for whatever reason. I think I hurt his feelings and he's probably angry at me, but in all honesty, I just had to say what I felt, even though MAYBE I didn't have to go so far as to say what I initially wrote him on IM about me being sick of all the emotionally "unavailable" men. LOL. I was just so frustrated and kind of tired of what felt like this drama

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Thu, 03-13-2008 - 9:44am

Hi Precious,


Just an FYI: on match you can hide your profile without deleting it.

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Thu, 03-13-2008 - 10:04am

Well, he contacted me this morning per email to tell me he is delaying his response to think things through. I responded that I don't expect to hear from him right away, but I am glad he let me know because silence can be a killer.


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Registered: 09-01-2006
Thu, 03-13-2008 - 10:18am

((((Hugs )))))) to you Cat.

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