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I need to vent!!!!!
| Thu, 03-27-2008 - 1:27pm |
Ex husbands seem to be a recurring theme here, so I'm taking this chance to vent about mine!!
My 20 yr marriage ended badly in 06.
| Thu, 03-27-2008 - 1:27pm |
Ex husbands seem to be a recurring theme here, so I'm taking this chance to vent about mine!!
My 20 yr marriage ended badly in 06.
I dont know anything about the condition you have but I know a friend of mine had this a while back for some sort of tampon problem she had where she forgot to remove it ( sorry if that was TMI but I thought you should know that it can be caused by different things even if you are sure about how yours was caused) I googled it and came up with this http://www.drugs.com/enc/cervical-erosion.html that had a lot of information but you probably already have that at this point. Are you having a cervical biopsy to rule out cancer? It seems it could be a precursor for this so please take any and all precautions!
The procedure itself would frighten me also but the best advice I can give you for that,having taken care of my mom and all of her GYN procedures when she was ill, is to ask very directly what you can expect during the procedure, a step by step description, what the average recovery entails and insist that someone go over all of this with you so you are prepared. The worst is to feel like you have no choices and are left to be surprised by different aspects of what is going on with your body.
All my best to you- I was thinking as I was typing that once this is resolved for you it might bring closure on the pain he inflicted in your life. Once the physical is repaired, perhaps you can focus even more on the emotional as well. Just a thought....HUGS...
THANK YOU!
Good luck!! I am sure the doctor's office will make it all go by fast and then you will have it behind you. It could never be as bad as having a kid, right? Get the nurse to hold your hand and talk to you to keep your mind off of it!!
And it sounds like you are much better off without the 200 pound monster. I am sorry you had to go through such a disappointment and stress in your life. But your life is your own now and will only get better in time if you wish it to.
Keep us posted!