I think I figured out

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I think I figured out
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Fri, 04-18-2008 - 2:15pm

my problem (beyond the fact that I should be working, LOL!!)

April

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Fri, 04-18-2008 - 5:58pm

From experience and my therapist..lol.....I asked her the same question!! "Old patterns..Negativity creeps in cus it's what we've known and know how to handle...(at tleast form me it is..according to my therapist


Don't be too hard on yourself..one day at a time remember??


{{{HUGS}}}

~~Tiny


You said you couldn't stand to see my heart broken...so when you broke it, did you close your eyes?

~Karen
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Fri, 04-18-2008 - 6:45pm

Thank you!

April

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Sun, 04-20-2008 - 4:14pm
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Sun, 04-20-2008 - 4:52pm

Maybe you're not excited about him cause you're just not really INTO him?


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Sun, 04-20-2008 - 5:06pm

Alison--I will sit on this thought for a bit and let time pass but I reallly don't think that is it...I am nervous about him being worried about my past when I am at home and able to think about those things but when I am with him or when I am talking to him it's all about the two of us being together--I think that is why I keep telling him stuff--the conversation just flows and it all comes out.

April

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Sun, 04-20-2008 - 5:31pm

April- good to hear your thoughts further, and I do hope you think about the perspective I threw out there.


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Sun, 04-20-2008 - 5:34pm

Thank you friendlyghost--always nice to have a mans perspective and what beautiful and touching sentiments!


I am trying to take the whole process a day at a time--it's hard though, I am truely not used to dating someone who is a gentleman and who is so nice, sad really!!

April

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Sun, 04-20-2008 - 5:39pm

YOU are a great, fun, lively, smart and talented woman- who cares what "horrors" you have in your past, they made you a great person today who really appreciates all she has in life and knows that she can survive all that is thrown her way!

April

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Sun, 04-20-2008 - 5:45pm

It was an amazing moment for me when it just clicked that I was constantly obsessing about whether they liked me and doing/ acting/ saying the "Right" thing to ensure that they do/ did.


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Sun, 04-20-2008 - 5:59pm
this one calls when he says he will and follows up, and sends emails to say hi.

April

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