I think I might have to

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I think I might have to
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Mon, 02-25-2008 - 1:33pm

NEXT Countryboy...I am so disappointed!

April

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Mon, 02-25-2008 - 3:26pm
NOOOOO WAY SISTA...dont you dare call him. You are sooo m uch better and above that. I dont think contacting him for whatever crawled up his butt for an answer is going to give you any comfort at this point. Hes let you down in a really crappy way after ummmm the movie. Maybe im to jaded at this point but shame on him and you dont deserve his actions or lack there of. You DESERVE BETTER and better will find you!!!
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Mon, 02-25-2008 - 3:29pm
I'm with you darlin! Very confused about all of that. I mean he invited you first and then NOTHING?? It just doesn't make any sense. I'm so sorry! I wish I was there to give you a big hug. I know how hard it all is to trust and pick yourself up and not think that every guy is
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Mon, 02-25-2008 - 3:53pm

Exactly--why even bring something up if you are not going to follow through?!?!

April

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Mon, 02-25-2008 - 3:55pm
I'm sorry he turned out to be a dud :(

 

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Mon, 02-25-2008 - 3:58pm
I would be so floored, because I just wouldn't "get" the whole mentality of it all.
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Mon, 02-25-2008 - 4:29pm
WWID? Casual dating gets him casual behavior - meaning no intimacy. Consequences consequences - that is important. If I was you I would back off and only see him "out" meaning no house! Come and go as you please when you please, but not if you are cumming with me! LOL!! Be more strict the next time around and see what happens over time - if they are that into you consistently without the sex.
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Mon, 02-25-2008 - 5:01pm
WWID? Casual dating gets him casual behavior - meaning no intimacy. Consequences consequences - that is important. If I was you I would back off and only see him "out" meaning no house! Come and go as you please when you please, but not if you are cumming with me! LOL!! Be more strict the next time around and see what happens over time - if they are that into you consistently without the sex.

April

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Mon, 02-25-2008 - 5:17pm

Come and go as you please when you please, but not if you are cumming with me! LOL!! Be more strict the next time around and see what happens over time - if they are that into you consistently without the sex.


I agree. And well said!!! No wonder your the board leader, lol.

~Pacific~
~Pacific~
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Mon, 02-25-2008 - 5:24pm

I know from experience to make solid, specific plans with someone (my children, people at work, friends, and yes, women that I date) or else there is that question that it is going to happen or not.


If someone tells me that they are going to get back to me at a specific day then they don't then next time I talk with them to find out why and to let them know that I operate based on what they say as a commitment to do so for that is an integrity issue for me.

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Registered: 10-07-2005
Tue, 02-26-2008 - 2:30am

I wouldn't wait for him to call.


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