I agree with Rich that if he came for a second time, then it wasn't that either. I just don't get it either. It makes NO sense. I would have thought something awful happened to him and worried like an idiot on top of it.
Okay--I know this is stupid and I shouldn't be upset but I am--so much so I am shaking because Countryboy has turned this all around to make me the bad guy--I know breathe, ignore, F-him...he claims that he was taking it "slow" (oh that's why you asked me away for a weekend and then I hear nothing from you for almost a week) and that he has been busy (yeah, going to bars with other girls) and that he was very offended to find out that I had put a new profile on POF (but if he is looking so
I know its hard Sweetie, to not get worked up. To think YOU "did something" to screw it up or make him think badly of you - but, *I* think he is using it to throw you off, by taking the blame OFF him.
Lets look at him from his POV, giving him the benefit of the doubt. I cant remember excatly, but i think you said you had been intimate, & you made it clear that you have to be "exclusive" for that to happen or continue. Yet, you guys never had "that talk", so he IS off the hook in that regard. Fine.
Okay--I am still trying to work this out in my head--this is what happened today--I reposted my profile on POF yesterday (this is how we met) he saw it today and left a note about how he was glad he was taking it slow if that was how I was going to be--mind you I still hadn't heard from him since he left my house Friday morning.
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I Googled for that phrase under "images."
You can only do what you can do.
DISCLAIMER about CROCS?
Okay--I know this is stupid and I shouldn't be upset but I am--so much so I am shaking because Countryboy has turned this all around to make me the bad guy--I know breathe, ignore, F-him...he claims that he was taking it "slow" (oh that's why you asked me away for a weekend and then I hear nothing from you for almost a week) and that he has been busy (yeah, going to bars with other girls) and that he was very offended to find out that I had put a new profile on POF (but if he is looking so
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Chiming in about the Crocks.... except that Crocks brand per se doesn't fit well.
I know its hard Sweetie, to not get worked up. To think YOU "did something" to screw it up or make him think badly of you - but, *I* think he is using it to throw you off, by taking the blame OFF him.
Lets look at him from his POV, giving him the benefit of the doubt. I cant remember excatly, but i think you said you had been intimate, & you made it clear that you have to be "exclusive" for that to happen or continue. Yet, you guys never had "that talk", so he IS off the hook in that regard. Fine.
Okay--I am still trying to work this out in my head--this is what happened today--I reposted my profile on POF yesterday (this is how we met) he saw it today and left a note about how he was glad he was taking it slow if that was how I was going to be--mind you I still hadn't heard from him since he left my house Friday morning.
April
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