I think MM asked me out???
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I think MM asked me out???
| Sun, 09-21-2008 - 3:05pm |
Hi all,
not sure but he may have just asked me out... unfortunately it's my kid weekend and i had to say no....
Here's the scoop: he

That was a very casual move on his part don't ya think. As much as i like this guy, and get the good guy vibe (as
Jenn ~~~ mom to Ashley & Elliott ~~~
MM sounds like me..lol. This is similar to how "I KIND OF ASKED BIKER OUT". Yes you read it right..The shy, modest me. I was dying for some alone time with him and there was no sign of him asking me out- besides we work together so I knew he had reservations. So I sent him an e-mail saying " The weather is good. If you going out driving I would join". He replied" sorry the only trip planned today is by bike".. He was almost on his way out when he got my message.
I did sound very casual..didnt I? But only I know how I was sad that I cant spend the day with him. I almost shed few drops of tears..lol...I really wanted his company..I decided I wont ask him out or act interested anymore. Afterall I am the woman here..I want to be pursued. So later around 4.30 or
Lol- loony quit over analyzing every move the guy makes. He's obviously interested in getting to know you better, so get to know him. If he decides he wants to ask you out or just stay friends, only time will tell... but for now, think of him as just a guy who thinks you're cool and wants to hang.
Loony--
He is totally asking you out! I think that it just feels different to you because maybe most guys before have been really overt about it. But MM is taking time. And IMO that is a good thing. He is kindling the flames instead of torching them..and the warm up will get very hot, don't you think? I also know how anticipation can make it even better. AND you are getting to know each other. All good things!
So ya...he asked you out definately. Have you been able to talk to him since and offer up an alternative for your next kid free day?
I like the way this is unfolding! I would chalk up this new way of getting to the first date as a combination of experiance and his personal style. Enjoy the excitiment and go for it!
i think your theory is probably correct. I'm used to guys diving right in with bold statements etc... but alas, they also bail out as quickly as they dove in...