I'm Crushed

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Registered: 03-19-2008
I'm Crushed
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Tue, 10-28-2008 - 11:54pm

EMT took a call from his ex girlfriend tonight while we were together snuggled on the couch. It was a lengthy and very friendly call that he ended with calling her "my dear". He calls me that often and it used to make me feel special. Not anymore. I just want to crawl under a rock. I am shocked that he even took the call from her, and made it lengthy, friendly and ended calling her a term of endearment. When did taking calls from ex girlfriends during dates become acceptable? Is it acceptable? Am I oversensitive? It probably wouldnt be so bad if it were his ex wife. But it was his ex girlfriend who left him suddenly to move to FL while he still had feelings for her.

Going to find a rock to crawl under. AAAAARRRRRGGGGGHHHHH

Laurie




Edited 10/29/2008 12:00 am ET by tsunami2008
anonymous
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Registered: 08-28-2008
Wed, 10-29-2008 - 12:15pm
Its so true, Im with you and Moon. I can totally tolerate the ex wife. Its the ex g/f I have issue with.
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Registered: 10-30-2004
Wed, 10-29-2008 - 12:19pm
I wonder why that is.
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Registered: 07-14-2007
Wed, 10-29-2008 - 12:26pm
I am with the others; you are not over-reacting.
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Registered: 09-11-2007
Wed, 10-29-2008 - 12:28pm
I wonder why that is.
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Registered: 08-28-2008
Wed, 10-29-2008 - 12:29pm

Yeah,

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Registered: 10-30-2004
Wed, 10-29-2008 - 12:35pm

His ex w doesn't bother me and besides I'm way cuter. LOL Kind of kidding ;)


With the girlfriends it's the big unknown.

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Registered: 09-11-2007
Wed, 10-29-2008 - 12:36pm

You could tell she was trying to check out my ring finger.

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Registered: 10-30-2004
Wed, 10-29-2008 - 12:41pm
LOL yeah kind of.
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Registered: 09-11-2007
Wed, 10-29-2008 - 12:48pm

Except I have no idea why she even cares.

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Registered: 08-28-2008
Wed, 10-29-2008 - 12:50pm

His ex w doesn't bother me and besides I'm way cuter. LOL Kind of kidding ;)


LOL! I always find that aspect to be a satisfying one. Vain, but satisfying! In BE's case...his ex wife is and has always been really cute. I've seen pics of her in her twenties and she was gorgeous. She still is very pretty. But still...I don't feel threatened by her in the least.


But the ex g/fs...lol!! I have seen them all and lets just say I can breath easy in that department. Holy moly, a couple of them look like they were hit in the FACE with the ugly brick. That sounds so mean, but in a very lame immature way I like it.


Pacific, sticking her tongue out at all the less cute ex g/fs and feeling like shes in 3rd grade lol

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