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I'm Crushed
| Tue, 10-28-2008 - 11:54pm |
EMT took a call from his ex girlfriend tonight while we were together snuggled on the couch. It was a lengthy and very friendly call that he ended with calling her "my dear". He calls me that often and it used to make me feel special. Not anymore. I just want to crawl under a rock. I am shocked that he even took the call from her, and made it lengthy, friendly and ended calling her a term of endearment. When did taking calls from ex girlfriends during dates become acceptable? Is it acceptable? Am I oversensitive? It probably wouldnt be so bad if it were his ex wife. But it was his ex girlfriend who left him suddenly to move to FL while he still had feelings for her.
Going to find a rock to crawl under. AAAAARRRRRGGGGGHHHHH
Laurie
Edited 10/29/2008 12:00 am ET by tsunami2008

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We were discussing merging departments at a staff meeting and I mentioned that it would be nice to be able to use people in her department to help us out when we are short staffed.
I know my worth and he's not the person I thought he was if he chooses to go back.
I agree. She was a big part of his past. And the divorce is final closure. He has been there done that and not going back. As far as the girlfriend goes, she left him to move to FL for I believe money reasons. He still had feelings for her. So as far as I am concerned there is no closure or been there done that its water under the bridge sort of thing. Plus the ex GF was NOT a big part of his past and they did not raise kids together.
I agree. Ties should be cut with the ex GF. Time to move on.
Laurie
"Holy moly, a couple of them look like they were hit in the FACE with the ugly brick."
LOL! Best laugh I have had all day! Bone ugly is what I would call it.
Laurie
You work with his ex GF? Oh jeez. Power to you. I guess I should be happy EMT's ex GF is out of state.
Laurie
Same here. His ex's are all overweight. Thats kind of how I feel. If he wants to go back to that I'll take my runner's body and go play somewhere else.
Laurie
PacSun,
Thanks and is that how you handled it with BE? Does he still communicate with his ex's? I think I am being pretty good about the friendship with the ex wife but the ex GF's can all go jump in a freezing cold lake for all I care.
Laurie
Glad I could make you laugh today :o)
As for the gf and no closure..she was the one to leave situation. I understand completely. BE's skanky ex BroomHilda used to jerk his chain constantly. Before he and I got together, she would put the bait out there for him to take (oh woe is me, poor helpless broomhilda...yada yada) and he would TAKE the bait and going running to her....just to have the rug pulled out every time. She would use him for emotional and financial support for the moment then she would go back to her jerk abusive husband and leave BE standing there actually wishing she would stay with him. So.....fast forward to our relationship. She tried this "poor needy BroomHilda" trick a few times to try and pry him away from me but thank God he did not take the bait while seeing me. So, I know what you mean about the ex gf being the one who pulls the strings and the fear that he would go back to that if she wanted it.
But you and EMT have talked about being exclusive and that should be solid. So EMT is probably not seeing the call as any biggie because he is committed. But that is where communication has to come in. You both mught have differnt idea as to what feels "safe". I know that BE and I did. But we got it worked out through talking and some some new boundaries on his part in dealing with exs.
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