Alison, I'm so sorry to hear that. Please know that my thoughts are with you, and hopefully everything will work out. We're always here, if you need to vent! Hugs! Moody
You poor sweetie!! That is like a boulder falling on your head.
I think he needs time to realize what he is missing. I am not sure I could just return to the dating phase after that - but that is just me. Hopefully time will tell you what is right for you, too.
This is not the message we ever expected to read from you. We have all always admired your posts and stories. I think very highly of you - and know you will get this sorted out.
Please keep us posted - we are always here for you!!
cl-alison, step back and look at the situation more clearly. Make decision that will put you where you want to be for your best future. good luck, be strong. cartia
Alison, try to be strong for yourself and for Nicolas (I'm sure he hurts too) men can be so confusing to say the least. Sending (( hugs )) and happiness your way........hang in there
I'm like Judy and thought just what she wrote... that is totally unexpected considering how well things have gone with you all. I hope that maybe some space will help him clear his thoughts and if it's something he can't come back to- that he would at least be able to explain things to you. This seems so very out-of-the-blue!
I'm so sorry. ((((((((((hugs)))))))))))) and I hope Nic is doing okay with it all.
I am genuinely shocked. I am so sorry to hear about this. Give him his time and space, and maybe when you reconnect, you can try counseling if he's open to it. In the meantime try to be good to yourself and your son. We are here for you.
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We're always here, if you need to vent!
Hugs!
Moody
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You poor sweetie!! That is like a boulder falling on your head.
I think he needs time to realize what he is missing. I am not sure I could just return to the dating phase after that - but that is just me. Hopefully time will tell you what is right for you, too.
This is not the message we ever expected to read from you. We have all always admired your posts and stories. I think very highly of you - and know you will get this sorted out.
Please keep us posted - we are always here for you!!
Alison, try to be strong for yourself and for Nicolas (I'm sure he hurts too) men can be so confusing to say the least. Sending (( hugs )) and happiness your way........hang in there
Holy moly, Alison!!!
I'm like Judy and thought just what she wrote... that is totally unexpected considering how well things have gone with you all. I hope that maybe some space will help him clear his thoughts and if it's something he can't come back to- that he would at least be able to explain things to you. This seems so very out-of-the-blue!
I'm so sorry. ((((((((((hugs)))))))))))) and I hope Nic is doing okay with it all.
~shrimpy
~shrimpy
"A man who wants something will find a way; a man who doesn't will find an excuse." ~Stephen Dolley Jr.
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I'm sorry Alison.
(((((((HUGS!))))))))))))
maybe when you reconnect, you can try counseling if he's open to it.
In the meantime try to be good to yourself and your son.
We are here for you.
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