I'm devastated..

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Registered: 10-07-2005
I'm devastated..
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Tue, 01-02-2007 - 12:10am

J moved out this weekend after 2.5 years.


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Tue, 01-02-2007 - 2:19am
Im ***SO*** sorry Sweetie. I dont know what went on, but sometimes a little space is what someone needs to see what they may be missing?

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Registered: 02-08-2006
Tue, 01-02-2007 - 3:53pm
Alison, I'm so sorry to hear that. Please know that my thoughts are with you, and hopefully everything will work out.
We're always here, if you need to vent!
Hugs!
Moody

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Registered: 06-30-2003
Tue, 01-02-2007 - 4:04pm
Alison, I'm so sorry. I hope things will work out for the best.
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Registered: 06-29-2005
Tue, 01-02-2007 - 4:13pm
{{{HUGS}}} Alison - I'm so sorry.....

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Registered: 05-13-2005
Tue, 01-02-2007 - 5:30pm

You poor sweetie!! That is like a boulder falling on your head.

I think he needs time to realize what he is missing. I am not sure I could just return to the dating phase after that - but that is just me. Hopefully time will tell you what is right for you, too.

This is not the message we ever expected to read from you. We have all always admired your posts and stories. I think very highly of you - and know you will get this sorted out.

Please keep us posted - we are always here for you!!

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Registered: 12-07-2006
Tue, 01-02-2007 - 5:52pm
cl-alison, step back and look at the situation more clearly. Make decision that will put you where you want to be for your best future. good luck, be strong. cartia
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Registered: 12-23-2006
Tue, 01-02-2007 - 10:36pm

Alison, try to be strong for yourself and for Nicolas (I'm sure he hurts too) men can be so confusing to say the least. Sending (( hugs )) and happiness your way........hang in there
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Registered: 06-04-2004
Wed, 01-03-2007 - 12:34am

Holy moly, Alison!!!

I'm like Judy and thought just what she wrote... that is totally unexpected considering how well things have gone with you all. I hope that maybe some space will help him clear his thoughts and if it's something he can't come back to- that he would at least be able to explain things to you. This seems so very out-of-the-blue!

I'm so sorry. ((((((((((hugs)))))))))))) and I hope Nic is doing okay with it all.

~shrimpy

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"A man who wants something will find a way; a man who doesn't will find an excuse." ~Stephen Dolley Jr.

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Registered: 05-29-2003
Wed, 01-03-2007 - 12:43pm

I'm sorry Alison.

(((((((HUGS!))))))))))))

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Registered: 09-26-2005
Wed, 01-03-2007 - 12:57pm
I am genuinely shocked. I am so sorry to hear about this. Give him his time and space, and
maybe when you reconnect, you can try counseling if he's open to it.
In the meantime try to be good to yourself and your son.
We are here for you.
The T Girl

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