I'm having a hard time

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I'm having a hard time
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Thu, 02-14-2008 - 8:59pm

I have spent the last 3 days depending on other people since my car is broken and it does make me happy to see what I do have--many friends willing to reach out and help but it also makes me feel guilty that I can't ever seem to do the same for them.

April

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Registered: 03-15-2004
Thu, 02-14-2008 - 9:45pm

Hey, All alone here to tonite. & let me tell you, you are NOT the only one who finds it hard to meet men. & guess what? we ARE busy! We are single moms. That does NOT make us "unavaliable".

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Registered: 03-15-2004
Thu, 02-14-2008 - 9:46pm

.... & if you DO have one? Put the

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Registered: 06-04-2004
Thu, 02-14-2008 - 10:11pm

ROFL Rebecca!!!!


~shrimpy

"A man who wants something will find a way; a man who doesn't will find an excuse." ~Stephen Dolley Jr.

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Registered: 04-08-2003
Thu, 02-14-2008 - 10:11pm
Alone here tonight too darling! And it's been
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Registered: 10-30-2004
Thu, 02-14-2008 - 10:15pm

Don't feel bad that you don't have a husband to do things for you.

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Registered: 10-10-2007
Thu, 02-14-2008 - 10:23pm

Thanks for the laugh--it's good to know that there is someone there who is willing to cheer me up!


April

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Registered: 10-10-2007
Thu, 02-14-2008 - 10:42pm

Just be careful that you don't just get into a relationship with a guy because you're lonely or sick of dating.

April

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Registered: 04-08-2003
Thu, 02-14-2008 - 11:43pm
Hey, I keep preaching the 7 years of loneliness here! I get so sick of it! I would love to have a real relationship again. My marriage lasted 3.5 years a total of 5 years together, so don't think I don't know. I've been single most of my life. My oldest Dad and I weren't 'married either. I used to only have long term relationships before my marriage, but now you can forget it. It never seems to last longer then
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Registered: 10-30-2004
Fri, 02-15-2008 - 5:20am

I just want to kick him to the curb so quickly, because he's gone

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Registered: 04-08-2003
Fri, 02-15-2008 - 8:27am

It's sad to have to be on guard. I am not that way at all unless you do something that doesn't gel. Ya know?


I mean you really have to give me something to doubt for me to question and put the guard up. Othewise, I'm pretty cool about it, because I don't want to be someone that can't trust. Not everyone is like the people I have dated. I know plenty in my family that are very honoroable, so that makes me realize they aren't ALL that way, but a lot of men are. A LOT! And that is sad.

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