Im so confussed

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Im so confussed
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Sun, 12-09-2007 - 8:40am

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Registered: 08-08-2007
Sun, 12-09-2007 - 10:43pm

I am sorry aobut this rough situation. I know that it must be a challenge to have your kids most of the time, with a very unreliable ex. And the way you describe your ex, I am not sure I would really want him around the kids. Epecially if he has been

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Registered: 11-25-2007
Sun, 12-09-2007 - 11:44pm

YOU GO GIRL - and PLEASE STICK TO YOUR GUNS, I know how difficult it will be on BOTH counts, it took some huge lessons/losses here.

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Registered: 11-11-2007
Mon, 12-10-2007 - 12:28am

These women are so right and so smart. I am pretty new to here and they have helped me so much have gone through some of the same issues as you. Thats what is so great about this site, we all have had some of the same experiences and can learn from one another.


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Registered: 03-15-2004
Mon, 12-10-2007 - 6:13am

He sounds to me, to be selfish & immature. Sure, i can see his wanting time alone with you, but he knew what he was getting into, & to pressure you like this is NOT FAIR.


If he wanted overnites occasionally with you, I would have said "Then you will have to pay for an overnite sitter".


But i think youre better off without him.

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Registered: 03-15-2004
Mon, 12-10-2007 - 6:15am
Is he MY X!?!

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Registered: 03-15-2004
Mon, 12-10-2007 - 6:17am

Al, that may backfire in 2 ways.


1, In *many* states, courts say that visitation is

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Registered: 10-07-2005
Mon, 12-10-2007 - 10:43am

I meant it more in the way to help her show her ex that it's not just HER wanting him to BABYSIT, but that the COURT has ordered the visitation on a schedule.


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Registered: 12-28-2004
Mon, 12-10-2007 - 11:35am

No, it's my EX!! lol


It took my X a while, but he finally realized about after 3 yrs being away from him, that I didn't care one iota whether he spent time with his daughter or not. When he would

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Registered: 03-15-2004
Mon, 12-10-2007 - 2:29pm
I think you confused me with the OP? In your last paragraph about the man Im dating .... ?

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Registered: 12-28-2004
Mon, 12-10-2007 - 2:50pm

Sorry, I started out with you but ended up with the OP! lol ...I'm having one of THOSE ditsy days.


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