I am sorry aobut this rough situation. I know that it must be a challenge to have your kids most of the time, with a very unreliable ex. And the way you describe your ex, I am not sure I would really want him around the kids. Epecially if he has been
These women are so right and so smart. I am pretty new to here and they have helped me so much have gone through some of the same issues as you. Thats what is so great about this site, we all have had some of the same experiences and can learn from one another.
He sounds to me, to be selfish & immature. Sure, i can see his wanting time alone with you, but he knew what he was getting into, & to pressure you like this is NOT FAIR.
If he wanted overnites occasionally with you, I would have said "Then you will have to pay for an overnite sitter".
But i think youre better off without him.
Rebecca, Mom to Averey, 2/8/00, Kibo, Sana & Zuri too!
I meant it more in the way to help her show her ex that it's not just HER wanting him to BABYSIT, but that the COURT has ordered the visitation on a schedule.
It took my X a while, but he finally realized about after 3 yrs being away from him, that I didn't care one iota whether he spent time with his daughter or not. When he would
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I am sorry aobut this rough situation. I know that it must be a challenge to have your kids most of the time, with a very unreliable ex. And the way you describe your ex, I am not sure I would really want him around the kids. Epecially if he has been
YOU GO GIRL - and PLEASE STICK TO YOUR GUNS, I know how difficult it will be on BOTH counts, it took some huge lessons/losses here.
mom_uk2socal - Mom to DS22, DS19, DD16
These women are so right and so smart. I am pretty new to here and they have helped me so much have gone through some of the same issues as you. Thats what is so great about this site, we all have had some of the same experiences and can learn from one another.
He sounds to me, to be selfish & immature. Sure, i can see his wanting time alone with you, but he knew what he was getting into, & to pressure you like this is NOT FAIR.
If he wanted overnites occasionally with you, I would have said "Then you will have to pay for an overnite sitter".
But i think youre better off without him.
Rebecca, Mom to Averey, 2/8/00, Kibo, Sana & Zuri too!
Rebecca, Mom to Averey, 2/8/00, Kibo, Sana & Zuri too!
Al, that may backfire in 2 ways.
1, In *many* states, courts say that visitation is
I meant it more in the way to help her show her ex that it's not just HER wanting him to BABYSIT, but that the COURT has ordered the visitation on a schedule.
No, it's my EX!! lol
It took my X a while, but he finally realized about after 3 yrs being away from him, that I didn't care one iota whether he spent time with his daughter or not. When he would
Sorry, I started out with you but ended up with the OP! lol ...I'm having one of THOSE ditsy days.
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