I'm sorry Judy....
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I'm sorry Judy....
| Wed, 01-09-2008 - 11:08am |
I just can't seem to get through that 30 page note from MA...
LMAO!!!
I have forwarded it to S for a male's point of view :)

| Wed, 01-09-2008 - 11:08am |
I just can't seem to get through that 30 page note from MA...
LMAO!!!
I have forwarded it to S for a male's point of view :)

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30 pages???
April
I am now curious about the letter....
I remember being in the most intimate (emotional, physical, spiritual, sexual) relationship I was ever in my entire life with J for a year.
I processed this by staying up late nights just letting out my pain on pages of email to her.
I am not justifying MA's letter.
I am not justifying MA's letter.
Delete everything. OMG.
Okay - so I gave all his stuff back via my friend. And he sent back a silly box of stuff - even the Oreo cookies. And everything had to have a sticky note on it with comments.
I think he has a problem with always having to validate his actions and win his arguments.
I am so done. I hope that he realizes it is not me and the umpteen women that came before me or even the store - it is HIM.
He even sent another note saying he traded stuff and that he cannot understand why I was so mean as to break up with him. I deleted it.
I do understand your pain because I have been in your boat. But you have to remember he only dated me for 8 weeks. I think he just wants to be married so bad and has had so many bad experiences because of his problem empathizing and communicating - and he built up this illusion in his head about me. It was way too intense for me and I do hope he finds someone else who shares his dreams and goals.
I think one of the reasons he has to be so so hugely defensive is because he doesn't want to do anything wrong. But whatever - I have enough to do and cannot be a counselor.
Can you imagine how much more out of control and over the top it would've gotten had you let it linger even just a few more days!
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