I'm sorry Judy....

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I'm sorry Judy....
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Wed, 01-09-2008 - 11:08am

I just can't seem to get through that 30 page note from MA...


LMAO!!!


I have forwarded it to S for a male's point of view :)




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Registered: 10-10-2007
Wed, 01-09-2008 - 11:35am

30 pages???

April

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Registered: 05-13-2005
Wed, 01-09-2008 - 11:37am
Don't worry - that is what the delete key is for!!
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Wed, 01-09-2008 - 12:14pm

I am now curious about the letter....


I remember being in the most intimate (emotional, physical, spiritual, sexual) relationship I was ever in my entire life with J for a year.

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Registered: 11-03-2003
Wed, 01-09-2008 - 12:41pm

I processed this by staying up late nights just letting out my pain on pages of email to her.

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Wed, 01-09-2008 - 1:04pm

I am not justifying MA's letter.

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Wed, 01-09-2008 - 2:07pm

I am not justifying MA's letter.

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Registered: 05-13-2005
Wed, 01-09-2008 - 2:31pm

Delete everything. OMG.

Okay - so I gave all his stuff back via my friend. And he sent back a silly box of stuff - even the Oreo cookies. And everything had to have a sticky note on it with comments.

I think he has a problem with always having to validate his actions and win his arguments.

I am so done. I hope that he realizes it is not me and the umpteen women that came before me or even the store - it is HIM.

He even sent another note saying he traded stuff and that he cannot understand why I was so mean as to break up with him. I deleted it.

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Registered: 05-13-2005
Wed, 01-09-2008 - 2:34pm

I do understand your pain because I have been in your boat. But you have to remember he only dated me for 8 weeks. I think he just wants to be married so bad and has had so many bad experiences because of his problem empathizing and communicating - and he built up this illusion in his head about me. It was way too intense for me and I do hope he finds someone else who shares his dreams and goals.

I think one of the reasons he has to be so so hugely defensive is because he doesn't want to do anything wrong. But whatever - I have enough to do and cannot be a counselor.

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Registered: 08-10-2007
Wed, 01-09-2008 - 2:41pm

Can you imagine how much more out of control and over the top it would've gotten had you let it linger even just a few more days!

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Wed, 01-09-2008 - 2:56pm
He just sent another note in a rage because he is mad I kept the xmas gifts (no - actually i gave them away to people I thought might like them and use them) and that I am going to use them with someone else. OMG! He is just too much. I think he is like QB's Psychoboy!!

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