I'm sorry Judy....

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Registered: 10-07-2005
I'm sorry Judy....
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Wed, 01-09-2008 - 11:08am

I just can't seem to get through that 30 page note from MA...


LMAO!!!


I have forwarded it to S for a male's point of view :)




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Wed, 01-09-2008 - 5:53pm

"LOL!! I was thinking that if I wore them outside at night I will blend in with the bushes and the neighbors won't know I am in my PJs.....?? Ya think?"


Either that or they'll think you're outside hiding in the bushes with NOTHING on!

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Registered: 10-07-2005
Wed, 01-09-2008 - 7:44pm
LOL- can you just imagine Judy flashing the neighbours?



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Thu, 01-10-2008 - 11:52am
Yikes....I cant help but think that he is really writing these letters to himself now because he seems after 8 weeks to be obsessed with the idea that he COULD be so sure about something being "it" or someone being "it" after that small amount of time. It must be near impossible or too painful for him to come to the realization that finding a lifetime with someone takes much more searching if not self searching than this.
I too have found myself in a situation where after 6 weeks someone wanted to say I love you and move in with my son and I. I dumped him as you did because I knew it wasnt right and he was extremely persistent and wrote letters and sent things to my house for months. Then when he found someone else to settle down with I received ALL of their wedding emails as if I were part of the list of all of their friends. I felt so sorry for her because it looked like all she must have done was satisfied a bunch of check marks on his superficial list of woman requirements. It also made me very relieved that I saw the light and knew better than to think he could really "see" me in my totality in such a short time. I actually remember saying to him when he said I love you and pressed for a response from me that I couldnt respond because I was thrown off too much by the fact that he didnt even know the parts of me that I wanted to be loved for the most. I hadnt shown him a fraction of them yet. Those things reveal themselves organically in time. However rational my response however, it didnt make a bit of difference to his behavior after the break up so I COMPLETEy agree with you that the delete button is your best friend. You have said enough and you will be wasting your thought and breath if you interact with him at all over this now.
Here's to wishing you so much more and so much better than this in the new year!
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