Interesting date number three......
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Interesting date number three......
| Wed, 10-01-2008 - 12:13am |
Ok, so date number three went terrific, but the conversations of what we talked about left me kind of confused. Your probably wondering "why" when I tell you, but I don't know. Maybe I don't know what to think, here it goesssss....
We had a terrific dinner, talked and laughed like always. I drove to his place as Pac suggested and realized he doesn't live far at all from me. He could of driven, but now I know. I knew WHERE he lived, but I'm new in my own neighborhood and didn't think about half the short cuts that I knew until I got on the road.
SOOOOOOOOOOO
I went to his place and he was wow'd because I was WOW! LOL. I looked FABULOUS and SEXY. He's seen me look good, but not that good. LOL. We headed straight to the restaurant and as I said, we talked and talked and talked (with lots of laughing).
After two and half hours, we headed back to his place. We sat listening to the music and yes... making out. BUT NOT heavy kind, just kissing and snuggling. No serious stuff.
ANYWAY, this is where it gets strange. So we were just having conversations about holidays and we talked about what we usually do. He loves Thanksgiving and I don't really celebrate it, because it's not German and I don't have family here. So it's just very different. He said that maybe that will change this year and he can show me a real Thanksgiving. Ok...... so that was the first hint.
Then here is the part where I should have maybe not have jumped too quickly: He asked if I was available for Saturday night or if I had a hot date. I said that I do date other people but that I've been giving him preferential treatment and that Saturday is open. He then asked how many poeple I date and I said several, but that I momentarily enjoyed focusing on him. Then I said: And you? He said that he dates several, but that now I was his focus.
Somehow, in that not so clear way, I think we said we wanted to only see each other, but I'm not really sure, nor am I sure how to bring it up to be sure. Did we just commit or not? Then, I don't know if I want that yet. I mean I REALLLLLLLLLLY like him, but should I fold all my cards already again and give in? I don't think I want to do that and I'm not sure that is what we both meant. I meant that I did date others, that I do give him the number one spot and that I did enjoy focusing on him, but I don't think I meant to be committal. Now I feel like a dork. Should I just leave it and continue and just go out with someone else when I feel like it and without telling orrrrr should I just go out with him and no one else or should I wait a little and see, but then re-explain myself at the risk of him feeling hurt?
He mentioned that it would be too long to wait until Saturday to see each other and then he kept mentioning the places he'd like to go with me. And that he wants to introduce me to his best friend and her husband. Geesh.
Okkkkkkkkk
It's not that I'm NOT excited, but I just don't want it to get out of hand to quick and back into trouble. I really need to slow it down AND I really need to stay away from his place, because it can get pretty steamy with both of us. Our chemistry is explosive. I don't want that either. Especially since I am still having issues and need to see a Doctor first. I kind of want to bring that up too. I think it's important that I let him know that I really need to take things slow a little, to ensure our intentions are for real. Thoughts???LOL.
We had a terrific dinner, talked and laughed like always. I drove to his place as Pac suggested and realized he doesn't live far at all from me. He could of driven, but now I know. I knew WHERE he lived, but I'm new in my own neighborhood and didn't think about half the short cuts that I knew until I got on the road.
SOOOOOOOOOOO
I went to his place and he was wow'd because I was WOW! LOL. I looked FABULOUS and SEXY. He's seen me look good, but not that good. LOL. We headed straight to the restaurant and as I said, we talked and talked and talked (with lots of laughing).
After two and half hours, we headed back to his place. We sat listening to the music and yes... making out. BUT NOT heavy kind, just kissing and snuggling. No serious stuff.
ANYWAY, this is where it gets strange. So we were just having conversations about holidays and we talked about what we usually do. He loves Thanksgiving and I don't really celebrate it, because it's not German and I don't have family here. So it's just very different. He said that maybe that will change this year and he can show me a real Thanksgiving. Ok...... so that was the first hint.
Then here is the part where I should have maybe not have jumped too quickly: He asked if I was available for Saturday night or if I had a hot date. I said that I do date other people but that I've been giving him preferential treatment and that Saturday is open. He then asked how many poeple I date and I said several, but that I momentarily enjoyed focusing on him. Then I said: And you? He said that he dates several, but that now I was his focus.
Somehow, in that not so clear way, I think we said we wanted to only see each other, but I'm not really sure, nor am I sure how to bring it up to be sure. Did we just commit or not? Then, I don't know if I want that yet. I mean I REALLLLLLLLLLY like him, but should I fold all my cards already again and give in? I don't think I want to do that and I'm not sure that is what we both meant. I meant that I did date others, that I do give him the number one spot and that I did enjoy focusing on him, but I don't think I meant to be committal. Now I feel like a dork. Should I just leave it and continue and just go out with someone else when I feel like it and without telling orrrrr should I just go out with him and no one else or should I wait a little and see, but then re-explain myself at the risk of him feeling hurt?
He mentioned that it would be too long to wait until Saturday to see each other and then he kept mentioning the places he'd like to go with me. And that he wants to introduce me to his best friend and her husband. Geesh.
Okkkkkkkkk
It's not that I'm NOT excited, but I just don't want it to get out of hand to quick and back into trouble. I really need to slow it down AND I really need to stay away from his place, because it can get pretty steamy with both of us. Our chemistry is explosive. I don't want that either. Especially since I am still having issues and need to see a Doctor first. I kind of want to bring that up too. I think it's important that I let him know that I really need to take things slow a little, to ensure our intentions are for real. Thoughts???LOL.

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D@mn those scorpios and their sexual OOOZING!!!
whew he SOUNDS hot!
blue eyes, nice arms and confidence?? I'm sold!! ;o)
"That's 11 WEEKS or 104 days! "
But who's counting, right?
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