Interesting developments

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Registered: 10-30-2004
Interesting developments
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Sun, 02-24-2008 - 10:05pm

My ex husband was supposed to get married in June and they have now decided to marry on March 1st!

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Registered: 05-13-2005
Mon, 02-25-2008 - 4:37am
Has he ever tried to do that sort of thing before? I know the possibility worries you - but if he hasn't done it in the past he might now - and if your oldest is almost 18 that is a good thing. Hopefully he won't do such a thing and they are really getting the money from somewhere else - keep us posted!
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Registered: 11-03-2003
Mon, 02-25-2008 - 10:07am

I would think that seeing your Ex get married would be tough, no matter how well you guys do or don't get along.

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Registered: 04-08-2003
Mon, 02-25-2008 - 10:21am

I agree! No matter what that hurts. I know when I was supposed to get married, both of my X's were very upset about it. My X husband actually wanted to attend! LOL. I told him I didn't think that was appropriate.


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Registered: 10-30-2004
Mon, 02-25-2008 - 11:42am
I am being petty I guess.
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Registered: 04-08-2003
Mon, 02-25-2008 - 11:49am

I can totally understand that. It always aches I think because you wonder "why" couldn't that have happened in our marriage. I feel when a X does something that is good for them, it sometimes opens wounds.


An example is that my X travels ALL over the world now. He never did this with me. We did small road trips, but he never took me anywhere otherwise. Then he started on his world trips with his mistress and it just upset me. Now he goes with his buddies, but just him doing stuff with someone else that he never did with me, kinda hurt.

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Registered: 10-30-2004
Mon, 02-25-2008 - 3:04pm

Exactly!

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Registered: 01-30-2006
Wed, 02-27-2008 - 3:31pm

Not only do I feel your pain but you are practically echoing my sentiments from Valentine's Day.

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Registered: 03-11-2004
Wed, 02-27-2008 - 3:42pm

Theres a quote that i LOVE and its froma

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Registered: 10-30-2004
Wed, 02-27-2008 - 6:06pm

My son decided he doesn't want to live with his father and moved all his stuff back to my house.

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Registered: 03-27-2003
Wed, 02-27-2008 - 6:24pm

I would LOVE to have my DD14 move in with me AND I know it would kill any sleep overs that I would have (not that I have had any lately).

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