Interesting developments

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Registered: 10-30-2004
Interesting developments
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Sun, 02-24-2008 - 10:05pm

My ex husband was supposed to get married in June and they have now decided to marry on March 1st!

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Registered: 10-30-2004
Wed, 02-27-2008 - 7:22pm
I don't know.
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Registered: 06-04-2004
Wed, 02-27-2008 - 8:20pm

((((((isysmoon)))))


Your kids won't think you are a Ho... you've been seeing the same man for TWO years!!! It's not like you've had 6 different men in those 2 yrs. And, you're both adults... and if you are having sex, that is not the kids' business. It's not like you guys are young and still trying to get your life together and figure out what you want to be when you grow up. It's just different.


I hope it doesn't mean it will end your relationship. Is that what YOU think or is that what you think your BF will want?


I tell ya- stuff between Hiker and I are disrupted by the kids often- (plans and opportunities to date or make trips together)- but neither one of us are thinking "it's over" just because our time is either cut short, or cut off. It's just a temporary thing, that the kids are with us. So we just deal with it as it is. For now. And we keep making tentative plans for what we would like to try in the future.


HUGS, though!!!!!


I thought a little bit of the same when my ex got remarried- and it sucked that he was free and able to date all he wanted because he didn't have to juggle babysitting or ANYTHING. So of COURSE he could find someone new quicker!!! But karma strikes... his life is NOT easier, as he has Stage IV cancer. I think I'd much rather be "saddled" with the kids. Now that's karma at its craziest...


~shrimpy

~shrimpy

"A man who wants something will find a way; a man who doesn't will find an excuse." ~Stephen Dolley Jr.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 10-30-2004
Wed, 02-27-2008 - 9:02pm

We'll see what happens.

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Registered: 01-30-2006
Thu, 02-28-2008 - 10:09am

I hear what you are saying but you cannot be the martyr here.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-30-2004
Thu, 02-28-2008 - 10:12am
We'll see how it all unfolds.
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-11-2007
Thu, 02-28-2008 - 10:33am

I'm confused - you're 18 yo is moving back with you full time, but your other two will continue to spend time at their dad's right?

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Registered: 10-30-2004
Thu, 02-28-2008 - 10:47am
Thank you for your words Moon!!

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