Irritated Vent...

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Irritated Vent...
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Sun, 07-27-2008 - 7:32pm

So, I have two Sundays a month.. ONLY TWO DAYS a frickin month where I have no work, no kids, no need for a sitter to go out and have fun.


Well, Medic had to work today so I made plans with HC on Thursday for us to go out on Sunday. He told me to call him when I wake up. So, (working nights lol) I called him around 4pm, we talked for a few minutes and he said he was shopping and would call me back when he got out of the store. Its now almost 7:30pm and I still havn't heard from him.


I value these Sundays so much, and I always like to plan something fun, or to spend time with someone special, or do something that I don't normally have time to do. I'm so freaking unbelievably irritated that someone holds zero value in that and its just disrepsectful ya know?


Seriously, I sat here starving thinking we were going out to dinner. I've already showered (didn't get ready, but got the shower part done) so I could get ready quickly, but this is a joke. So, I finally ate some pasta, and I'm searching pay per view for a good movie. GRRR I'm ticked off.


Its early, so I'm afraid to give him a piece of my mind, but ugg I want him to understand that he can't do this. He's been Mr. spur of the moment since I've known him always asking me out at the last minute. And I sense a 10pm phone call saying hey lets go get some food! Ugg, I'm going to have to bite my tongue on telling this guy off. Thanks for ruining my Sunday :/


As for Medic, he's backed off a bit (which is a good thing, I think he sensed me freaking out a bit lol) but still very into me and we correspond in someway on a daily basis. Our schedules really stink together. I put in for a xfer at work.. not for him, but for ME. I love my job so much, but my job does not love my social life. I'm thinking about finding a 9-5 and just PRN in the Peds ED one weekend a month.


Blah, so after quitting smoking for a month I went to the store and I'm sitting here with a pack of cigarettes and a box of milk duds. Someone save me! LOL

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Mon, 07-28-2008 - 10:16pm

Hi girls,

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Mon, 07-28-2008 - 10:19pm
I'm always in Wilmington, so that is only 90 minutes away from Raleigh. How about a beach day>? ?
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Registered: 03-19-2008
Mon, 07-28-2008 - 10:58pm

Are you a nurse? It sounds like you work similar hours as I do. I know what its like to finally have a day off the coincides with your SO's day off AND be without kids. Its like a birthday...comes once a year. I can see your frustration.

Nurses work way too hard. Can you take a few more days off here and there?

Laurie

anonymous
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Tue, 07-29-2008 - 11:05am
I love the beach but just finished skin cancer treatment on my lower lip so prefer to stay out of the sun. Maybe we can meet somewhere in between or even in charlotte.
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Tue, 07-29-2008 - 11:07am

OUCH! I remember you saying something about that in another post- you said it was from your chapstick?

I avoid the sun as much as possible, since I just tend to burn even with sunblock on... so I cover up and stick to the shade.

"Admire what you DO have, and stop asking for what you don't." Ds-age 8


Photobucket
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Registered: 04-30-2008
Tue, 07-29-2008 - 11:12am
Yes, we can't wear vaseline or chapstick without sunscreen. I did this for many many years... it is like putting baby oil on and sunning.
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Tue, 07-29-2008 - 11:16am
Geeze I didn't know this!
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Registered: 04-30-2008
Tue, 07-29-2008 - 11:24am

You have make sure that it says 45 spf on it.

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