It could've been, but it wasn't.........
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It could've been, but it wasn't.........
| Mon, 04-24-2006 - 4:03pm |
It could of been the worst trip, but it wasn't. It was the best trip I've ever had and everything worked out magically. His son and my girls got along fantastic. They didn't want to spend a moment apart. That went for C and I as well.

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I forget the title of the first book.
I've read the comments and I guess I was wrong about no one able to burst my bubble, because in all honesty before I respond in a separate post in the next few days in regards to who C is and what character type he is;I am taking a deep breath. Just a few
IMHO Judy wasn't saying you had to prove anything to us - just giving suggestions on what you might want to do for yourself (and any information you find can be kept to yourself too).
Sweetie,
I agree with Jennie, I don't think Judy, or anyone here is judging you.
Unless a guy gives me a reason to doubt him, I don't check. PERIOD. Again, I find it's a trust issue. If this were back in the day before computers and easy access, then I'd have to go with my gut instinct; which has been of more use then any computer ever was. Even though I met him online, I am basically still old school. I believe in the old traditional ways of courting, love, etc without checking someone's bank account. However C knows the other end of things. I talked to him about it last night because it upset me. He had some interesting things to say in regards to what he thought about people going to far, but you know what? He is perfectly comfortable with the idea of getting
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I would just like to add that I have actually spoken to C. Cat and I are good friends. Recently she was trying to help me out with problems in my relationship. She thought C could lend a male perspective to the whole thing, so we had a three-way conversation. In fact, we had several three-way conversations. What I find so remarkable about that is here is this guy, C, who doesn't know me from Adam, except that I am Cat's friend. And being Cat's friend, he said I am his friend. So not even knowing me at all, he took his time to listen to me babble and complain and cry. He offered advice, but most of all, support. Cat, C and I don't see eye-to-eye on my problem, but I know that even though we don't agree, I have their support as my friends, and that means EVERYTHING to me. I just think that the fact that he is willing to help a stranger is a little bit of an insight into what kind of a person this guy is.
I think, at the very least, you have to give Cat credit because she has guts. I wouldn't want to be bothered with a long distance relationship, and she knows that. Heck, I complain about driving 1 1/2 hours to see my man! But everyone is different. Is it true love, will it last forever? Who knows. If any of us could see into the future and predict what was going to happen: (1) we'd be rich; (2) and we wouldn't be on this board because we would have found our perfect man and we would be living "happily ever after". I don't believe in love at first sight or "head over heels - can't stand to be without you" kind of love. I've done that 3 times and got burned every time. Now, I take the more relaxed, wait-and-see approach to love. So far, it works for me, but that's just me, and everyone is different.
What is also important here is what Corrine touched on a little bit. Everyone has a different way of doing things, and no one person's way is right. But what is important is support. For the past 3 weeks now Cat has experienced just how unhappy I was, and how I was thinking about making a very bad choice to get invovled with someone I shouldn't, and how she would have already walked out on my current relationship. We don't agree, but she's still there for me, even though she doesn't always get where I'm coming from. She listens to me complain and cry, even if she has nothing to say, she still listens. That's a true friend, and I love her for that.
The bottom line is it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks -- Cat is the one who is embarking on a relationship with this guy, not us. So far, if there was anything that caught my attention, I let her know. We kick each other in the butt when we need it. But so far, I haven't heard anything. Anyway, I think we should all wish her luck and hope that things work out for her. God knows she deserves it!
Donna
Donna
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