It Started Already--Help

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Registered: 09-28-2008
It Started Already--Help
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Sun, 10-19-2008 - 9:07am

Okay, Im feeling really weak.

[ ~*~Lisa~*~

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Registered: 04-08-2003
Sun, 10-19-2008 - 10:51am
You can do this!!! You can get through it!! Have you called him yet?? Please don't!! I know it's sooooooooo tempting, but don't let it happen. If the pendant is important to you, then have a friend of yours pick it up and she should make the arranged schedules. Don't you dare let him do this to you. You deserve so much better!!! I know Sundays on the board are quiet, but I'm here if you need me. I'm sick with the flu, so I having nothing to do but be in bed and on the computer.
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Registered: 11-25-2007
Sun, 10-19-2008 - 11:12am
unless you HAVE to have the phone on because of your child, PLEASE PLEASE turn the phone off.

mom_uk2socal - Mom to DS22, DS19, DD16

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Registered: 09-28-2008
Sun, 10-19-2008 - 12:34pm

Hey, I have not called, text, emailed, have made no response what so ever.

[ ~*~Lisa~*~
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Registered: 04-08-2003
Sun, 10-19-2008 - 12:49pm
Good IDEA!! Just get out of the house doing stuff and keep the phone off. You should probably think about changing your cell number or blocking his call. First thing first, delete his name, so when you see it come up, you won't panic as much as if you only see a number. It does help. Keep up ignoring him, think of your son and what he thinks of this jerk. Have you done the online thing yet that I told you about?? Again, I swear it does wonders. Do not let the scum come back in, no matter how needy you feel. It is like a drug addiction and for your health and best interest, you'll want to get rid of an addicition, right??
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Registered: 09-28-2008
Sun, 10-19-2008 - 1:26pm

Yes, it is just like a drug addiction.

[ ~*~Lisa~*~
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Registered: 10-30-2004
Sun, 10-19-2008 - 1:47pm
Check out their profile help page!
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Registered: 09-28-2008
Sun, 10-19-2008 - 2:28pm

I will look into the profile help.

[ ~*~Lisa~*~
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Registered: 04-07-2003
Sun, 10-19-2008 - 3:30pm

You can do it! I'm in a similar boat. When things are good, it's easy to get caught up back in they cycle.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sun, 10-19-2008 - 4:57pm
Girl, stay away from that freak.
 
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Registered: 04-08-2003
Sun, 10-19-2008 - 5:04pm

You need to get through this. The guy definitely sounds off his rocker! You need to rid yourself and I know you can start your profile and then paste it in here and we'll all give it a polish. We've done that for each other in the past!

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