Its been a while.. HC update

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Registered: 07-28-2008
Its been a while.. HC update
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Fri, 09-12-2008 - 9:06pm

Convo with HC tonight who has just been casual and in the background, being very sexually flirty and such and asked about when we're going to see eachother again. I replied with (gasp, I can't believe I said these words to make a man run 50 miles in the other direction)


"I need and want a hell of a lot more than you're willing, desiring, or capable to give me" He was like oookkayy? Says who? Why do you think that we could never be more? I said "Its all in your eyes" And it is.. you KNOW when a man likes you just by the way they look at you, and smile ya know? Same thing was missing with Heartbreaker that night.. yes there were some moments where our eyes met in deep conversation..but there was no longing, desire, admiration. I won't settle for any less than a man that can look at me like that.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sat, 09-13-2008 - 11:17am
WOOOOOO!!!
 
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Registered: 05-06-2008
Sun, 09-14-2008 - 9:10am

You go, girl! Were you shaking when you said it? I would have!

It's very brave, and I know sometimes you feel like poop when it is over, but in the end, if you stick around a guy who isn't giving you what you need, you are just settling.