Jimmy - update

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Registered: 03-25-2002
Jimmy - update
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Fri, 08-31-2007 - 6:40pm

So like i said, i stopped in for some karaoke last night.... Jimmy came right up to me immediately so say hi. He talked to me for quite a while... said he missed me... Wow, and it had only been 5 days.

Summer said, Jimmy likes you... he said, he can't figure me out. What? I thought... what's to figure out. I talk to him, i've called him, i smile at him... i haven't done anything different than i normally do... Well, here's the thing... After talking to him, he said, every girlfriend he's had has asked him out. I flirt with him, but i don't ask him out. And of course, i flirt with many others and he knows it. Last night he asked me out to a movie and dinner and a concert. The concert is tonight and I'm working.... so i can't go. As for the movie and dinner, he said he'd call....

I asked him about his cooking, like you all suggested... that did get him talking.. He also said, he wants a girlfriend (not that he was asking me but just talking)... someone who doesn't mind his nightside working schedule.... He does seem like a nice guy.. we'll see if he actually does call me about that movie this time.

I read another article on Yahoo title "Mr Hottie or Mr Nice Guy?"... how appropriate for me.. The article told the questioner that she didn't have to choose right now... that she could date both until either one of them asked for exclusivity.. but then the article concluded with a good point. Hotness and Chemistry fade over time, but Nice tends to remain... Jimmy has a cute face but not a hot bod. I thinks it's kinda funny that right after Jimmy asked me out, i thought he's nice but "i'm always looking for the next guy i can drool over..."... then Sean called (and came back from iraq). And he's a guy i totally drool over. Just every inch of him ....yummy.

And Jimmy isn't a fallback guy.. he's a friend. the guy i can go to the movies with or play card games with... i enjoy his company and i'm hoping something will grow from it.. But in the meantime, i have hottie Sean at night.

Thanks everyone for support and advice.... Reba called me today to see if i'd join her for staring at the Bartender's butt tonight...... maybe....

Loonybunny

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Registered: 12-28-2004
In reply to: loonybunny
Fri, 08-31-2007 - 6:50pm

There's nothing wrong with having both the "drooling guy" and "nice guy". You're not exclusive with either one at this time. It has been my experience .. the guys that have made me drool....made me slip in my drool and ended up falling on my butt. I think you have your head on pretty straight with Sean and if something happens with Jimmy it will happen. If that's what you want, I will wish that for you.

Have fun bartender butt gazing!

Emma (incapable of juggling more than one man at a time LOL)

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Registered: 05-13-2005
In reply to: loonybunny
Sat, 09-01-2007 - 12:46pm

Loony- that is great that the cook asked you out - sorry you are working tonight and cannot go to the concert - but he will ask for something else again I am sure.

I think emma is right - you can see how it goes and make a decision later.

You have had the right attitude to get out of the house and have a little fun for yourself. It is great that your brother is there with you - I am sure that helps a lot.