I closed him after he said he didn't have a photo (but he did say he has a camera phone and digital camera). Then he sent a response to the closed message (this is a feature of eharmony) and said he was posting one now and hoped I would reconsider.
But now we are 2 days later and there is still no photo. Also, he changed his story from working with starting a business to working 3 jobs and ready to retire in just a few years.
I am going to close him for good - it just feels too fishy to me. And there was no real dialog - just a push to call him and meet me.
I hate that!! If you are getting the walks like a rat, smells like a rat... he probably looks like a rat too. Maybe his tail was showing in the photo!!
You're right... his photo phobia seems really stupid. One tiny request he can't comply with--why? What is the big deal about the pic anyway! I'd be hitting the delete button too. It's too bad, cause in his last email, he did sound much more together, but his behavior in general is just really weird!! And I didn't even catch that "work" issue.
I closed him after he said he didn't have a photo (but he did say he has a camera phone and digital camera). Then he sent a response to the closed message (this is a feature of eharmony) and said he was posting one now and hoped I would reconsider.
But now we are 2 days later and there is still no photo. Also, he changed his story from working with starting a business to working 3 jobs and ready to retire in just a few years.
I am going to close him for good - it just feels too fishy to me. And there was no real dialog - just a push to call him and meet me.
I hate that!! If you are getting the walks like a rat, smells like a rat... he probably looks like a rat too. Maybe his tail was showing in the photo!!
You're right... his photo phobia seems really stupid. One tiny request he can't comply with--why? What is the big deal about the pic anyway! I'd be hitting the delete button too. It's too bad, cause in his last email, he did sound much more together, but his behavior in general is just really weird!! And I didn't even catch that "work" issue.
Any more bites?
--snow