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| Tue, 05-15-2007 - 10:13am |
1. Do you kiss on the first date?
2. What is the most attractive feature you look for in a mate?
3. What do you think is the best thing to do on a first date?
4. How often is it acceptable to call each other when just dating?
5. Do you ever go online and if so, what sites are most successful? Least successful?
6. What will you absolutely NOT accept in a mate?
7. How do you normally dress for a first date?
8. Have you ever had sex on a first date? Do you think that ruins chances for serious relationships?
9. Is it better to meet someone at the place you intend to go or to have them stop by and pick you up at home for a first date?

1. Do you kiss on the first date? No.
2. What is the most attractive feature you look for in a mate? Sense of humor.
3. What do you think is the best thing to do on a first date? Dinner is nice because you get plenty of time for conversation.
4. How often is it acceptable to call each other when just dating? I guess it depends on how long you have been dating. I'm not much of phone person, but in the beginning a couple of times a week is acceptable. I've been with my BF now for 4 months and we can't go more than 1 day without some sort of communication. LOL.
5. Do you ever go online and if so, what sites are most successful? Least successful?
6. What will you absolutely NOT accept in a mate? A smoker, drug user, heavy drinker, someone who doesn't want kids (since I have one), and someone who doesn't accept me for who I am.
7. How do you normally dress for a first date? I always dress casual. It's just me. I like to feel comfortable, so I figure they should get used to it from the beginning. Usually jeans and a nice shirt.
8. Have you ever had sex on a first date? Do you think that ruins chances for serious relationships? Never have, so I'm not sure. I prefer to wait until some feelings are there. It makes it much more special.
9. Is it better to meet someone at the place you intend to go or to have them stop by and pick you up at home for a first date? I think for a first date it is better to meet them.
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1. Do you kiss on the first date? Sometimes
2. What is the most attractive feature you look for in a mate? Sense of humor.
3. What do you think is the best thing to do on a first date? Dinner is nice because you get plenty of time for conversation.
4. How often is it acceptable to call each other when just dating? As often as you want to talk, I guess. Not annoyingly frequent, but every couple of days is fine.
5. Do you ever go online and if so, what sites are most successful? Least successful? Have not.
6. What will you absolutely NOT accept in a mate? Anyone who is arrogant, rude, and abusive. No liars. No one who has ever cheated on a mate. Even if I did not know right away, I'd drop them if I ever found out they did that before.
7. How do you normally dress for a first date? Depends on the occasion. But for a first date, I prefer casual atmostphere appropriate for jeans.
8. Have you ever had sex on a first date? Do you think that ruins chances for serious relationships? I have. I don't think it necessarily ruins it but I think it can definitely cause expectations beyond what you planned to fulfill.
9. Is it better to meet someone at the place you intend to go or to have them stop by and pick you up at home for a first date? If you know them already, it's fine to have them stop by and get you. Otherwise, a meeting is best.
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1. Do you kiss on the first date? Never, nor the second and sometimes not even the third. I had a lunch with M and two dates, so that was 3 meets. I don't kiss a guy unless I know he's potential. They usually don't make it past date one and almost never past date two. So why even waste my lips?
2. What is the most attractive feature you look for in a mate? Hands, eyes, smile.
3. What do you think is the best thing to do on a first date? Have a drink or just lunch.
4. How often is it acceptable to call each other when just dating? once a day, usually when the girls are asleep or supposed to sleep. M and I talk 3-4 but that is because we have so much to say to each other.
5. Do you ever go online and if so, what sites are most successful? Least successful? almost all, except 1 my XF was from OLD. But I met Donna, through SM&D and this is online and it was her cousin so technically speaking, I guess we somehow did meet OLD.
6. What will you absolutely NOT accept in a mate? The two D's (drugs, drinking), separated and children with disabilities. I didn't think I would say that but I realized with my two girls it would be very difficult to be in a LTR with someone who had a child with a disability. I've tried it and unfortunately have put that on my list of don't.
7. How do you normally dress for a first date? jeans and a sweater or if after work, a business suit. lol
8. Have you ever had sex on a first date? Do you think that ruins chances for serious relationships? No and don't know. But I don't have sex with a potential until I've known someone dating at least once a week and then usually 6-8 weeks after that, but I prefer two months. I have done 1 month but decided 2 months is much better. FWB's don't count.
9. Is it better to meet someone at the place you intend to go or to have them stop by and pick you up at home for a first date? No. No one knows where I live until after the 3rd date.
1. Do you kiss on the first date?
Depends on the date. I have.
2. What is the most attractive feature you look for in a mate?
This is hard. I guess a sense of humor, since mine is quirky and a little off the wall and very sarcastic at times. it's hard to find people who can not only handle it but also get it and appreciate it.
3. What do you think is the best thing to do on a first date?
Something active and fun for both people- an activity, though, for sure.
4. How often is it acceptable to call each other when just dating?
Depends on the people. I am a contact every day kind of person when I'm exclusive, but when it's casual, I didn't ever care how much the guy called.
5. Do you ever go online and if so, what sites are most successful? Least successful?
I used Match with the greatest success, eHarmony with the least, but I'm impatient.
6. What will you absolutely NOT accept in a mate?
Lots of things, but extensive criminal background, joblessness, lack of ambition, anger, excessive drinking are all at the top of the list.
7. How do you normally dress for a first date?
Depends on what we're doing, but I'm pretty casual. i have some skirts and some jeans I feel great in, so they are always options.
8. Have you ever had sex on a first date? Do you think that ruins chances for serious relationships?
Yes, and while I don't think the sex ruined anything, I think we weren't compatible enough to have a relationship. We didn't know that on the first date, but it was evident soon after.
9. Is it better to meet someone at the place you intend to go or to have them stop by and pick you up at home for a first date?
I always meet them- I don't need a potential creep knowing where my children sleep at night!
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1. Do you kiss on the first date? Maybe - if he makes the first move and if I find him attractive.
2. What is the most attractive feature you look for in a mate? fun/funny and eyes
3. What do you think is the best thing to do on a first date? talk in a public place - any place
4. How often is it acceptable to call each other when just dating? once or twice a day - just depends
5. Do you ever go online and if so, what sites are most successful? Least successful?
match.com is the best for me but I have done a lot of others - I think match is best because it has the most people
6. What will you absolutely NOT accept in a mate? 3 As - addiction, abuse, aldultery
7. How do you normally dress for a first date? casual but attractive - show off the legs
8. Have you ever had sex on a first date? Do you think that ruins chances for serious relationships? no - not since the marriage days. I don't think it would ruin the chances but it seems that if a guy is that forward he might only be looking for that and it would make it hard to tell - i guess if you knew him for a while as a friend and then ended up in the sack that is okay - i just can't imagine that now with a total stranger - he would have to say he only wants to date me first!
9. Is it better to meet someone at the place you intend to go or to have them stop by and pick you up at home for a first date? I always meet them if I don't know them first